<rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><channel><title>kdproctor</title><description>kdproctor</description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/blog</link><item><title>Where I Attempt to Go Through my TBR....</title><description><![CDATA[*points to list of books I've written*As you can see...I've hit a writing slump. I'm not blaming that on anyone or anything. It happens to the best of us. I've written, rewritten, scrapped, replotted, and basically hit a dead end with book 2 of my Camp Pine Haven series. I just cannot find my way out of this corner I've painted myself into.One of the things that people (whoever they are...) have said is, "...read and you'll get some inspiration."So, that's what I'm going to do.It's time to start]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2019/06/10/Where-I-Attempt-to-Go-Through-my-TBR</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2019/06/10/Where-I-Attempt-to-Go-Through-my-TBR</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Jun 2019 00:03:30 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>*points to list of books I've written*</div><div>As you can see...I've hit a writing slump. I'm not blaming that on anyone or anything. It happens to the best of us. I've written, rewritten, scrapped, replotted, and basically hit a dead end with book 2 of my Camp Pine Haven series. I just cannot find my way out of this corner I've painted myself into.</div><div>One of the things that people (whoever they are...) have said is, &quot;...read and you'll get some inspiration.&quot;</div><div>So, that's what I'm going to do.</div><div>It's time to start reading through that TBR. But I'm going to admit something here. My TBR backlist is ridiculous. I've done a little ARC reading, of course. But good God. I have so many great books that I have yet to crack into that are well past the debut date. And many of my author friends have new books, but their books that have long since been showcased deserve to stay in the spotlight.</div><div>Let's be real. An older book sale puts the peanut butter on the bread just as well as a new book sale!</div><div>Call it a two-fer.</div><div>Learn a little about a new release, get a bonus suggestion from their backlist! </div><div>And maybe, just maybe, I'll get a little boost in my writing creativity!</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Swag Vendors I Love (as of May 2018)</title><description><![CDATA[Swag: the one thing authors dream about and can't wait to have in their arsenal of goodies...but it's the Achilles heel that no one ever talks about.I've mentioned this twitter thread many, many times but the talented Dahlia Adler did an incredible thread on Twitter about two years ago regarding the things that authors stress over but really in the long run it don't really matter. You can read the whole thread here. She talked about swag and hit the nail right on the head...Read that tweet<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_08c3291840c14c67b273c86a29d6aa2b%7Emv2_d_4032_3024_s_4_2.jpeg/v1/fill/w_470%2Ch_353/28b840_08c3291840c14c67b273c86a29d6aa2b%7Emv2_d_4032_3024_s_4_2.jpeg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2018/05/06/Swag-Vendors-I-Love-as-of-May-2018</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2018/05/06/Swag-Vendors-I-Love-as-of-May-2018</guid><pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2018 16:38:41 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Swag: the one thing authors dream about and can't wait to have in their arsenal of goodies...but it's the Achilles heel that no one ever talks about.</div><div>I've mentioned this twitter thread many, many times but the talented Dahlia Adler did an incredible thread on Twitter about two years ago regarding the things that authors stress over but really in the long run it don't really matter. <a href="https://twitter.com/MissDahlELama/status/763433029205389313">You can read the whole thread here</a>. </div><div>She talked about swag and hit the nail right on the head...</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/cce484_252bed9615899b0a81ab567aad369907.html"/><div>Read that tweet again.</div><div>Swag does not sell books. It's just fun.</div><div>When you think about it that way, the idea of buying swag for readers shouldn't be as taxing as it feels. After all, you've probably been thinking about swag since before you got your book deal or had a self publishing date in your head. It is fun and that should be something to look forward to--almost like a reward for when edits are done, ARCs are sent and you're moving into the marketing/PR portion of your journey.</div><div>Most authors order what people will use: pens, post its, bookmarks, magnets. But that doesn't mean you can't do something fun, too. My word of caution: think about where you'll store that bulk order of lip balm....or that massive quantity of pens that will likely dry out before you give it all away...not saying you shouldn't order that stuff, but sometimes a good deal on a bulk order may not be so great if you're holding onto it for two years.</div><div>I did buy swag for my book release and because I'd been planning that release for over a year, I was able to spread out my purchases so I didn't break the bank. </div><div>The items below and links to these vendors are my recommendations only. I am not paid by these vendors, I just really like their products. </div><div>Big White Yeti Candle Company</div><div>Candles seem to be the one cool item that authors love, but man...can they be expensive. They can also be hit or miss for some folks. They're a higher priced swag item and it really is rolling the dice because what you like may not be what a reader likes--meaning you could be stuck with a lot of candles.</div><div>My candle purchase was for (a) a small group of friends, family and writing professions (editors, etc) that helped me get here and (b) for a few exclusive giveaways during my launch week. That's it. </div><div>Finding the right scent--something that smelled like being outdoors with a campfire--was like trying to find the Fountain of Youth. I tried candles from Bath and Body Works, to home decor stores, Target, etc. Nothing fit the bill. I tried Etsy and with one order to Big White Yeti, I was hooked. Their candles are soy based and made with high quality oils and fragrances. I tried a number of different candles and they all were incredible and so hard to narrow down! In the end it was a tie between Night Swimming and Camp Kinnickinnic. Camp Kinickkinnic won in the end because it really did smell like being at the cabin and lighting a campfire. Katie was amazing to work with and because of the quantity I needed, bulk pricing was available. </div><div>You can check out Big White Yeti, <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/BigWhiteYeti?ref=l2-shopheader-name">here</a>.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_08c3291840c14c67b273c86a29d6aa2b~mv2_d_4032_3024_s_4_2.jpeg"/><div>To Color--Custom Coloring Pages</div><div>While the candle was an exclusive thank you for those who helped me on my journey, I wanted other, unique swag items that I could give out when readers ordered books through me. That's when I decided on custom coloring pages. Kate was great to work with and we went through a few rounds of designs before we settled on the ones I liked. Adult coloring pages are hit or miss--either you love the intricate, detailed designs--or it stresses you out. So I went with an &quot;easy&quot; design with very little detail, and one that was very intricate. I got several compliments on my coloring pages and would do it again in a heartbeat.</div><div>You can check out Kate's shop, <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/ToColor?ref=l2-shopheader-name">here</a>.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_d4226c5a3aad4be8bfec8fd7de74f271~mv2.jpeg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_7281806393864340aab2dd2be7b5a0c8~mv2.jpeg"/><div>Stickers and Magnets by Sticker Mule.</div><div>Let me preface this by saying--there are cheaper options out there for magnets and stickers. I recognize that. But I ended up scoring an internet deal for custom, vinyl stickers and let's just say: I was hooked on the quality.</div><div>These are nice stickers, like the kind you see on computers, water bottles and even on a car's bumper or back window. Their magnets come in the usual sizes (squares, circles, rectangles), but they'll also do cut out magnets, too--just like the stickers. My pictures below are of the stickers I ordered (first photo) and the magnets I ordered (photos 2 and 3). If you sign up for their mailing list, you'll get deals and the more items you order, the bigger the discounts.</div><div>Again. I know there are cheaper places out there--but I'm a fan of the 'mule. You can check out their website, <a href="http://stickermule.com">here</a>.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_3e4b21a540984ea1b8651d995ab7c4fa~mv2_d_2377_2236_s_2.jpeg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_10febf45f29146ee893db3a225459305~mv2.jpeg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_589479d97e424100b5f948bd7041d9e0~mv2_d_2334_1988_s_2.jpeg"/><div>Bookmarks by Vista Print</div><div>Bookmarks.</div><div>I have a love hate relationship with these things. Not only for the fact that most of my books were sold as e-books, but because trying to get a photo to fit the damn bookmark is like being in Dante's Fourth Circle of Hell. Thankfully the PR company I hired made a banner photo for me that worked. But if you're not up to speed on photo sizing, pixels per inch and photoshop, you might want to tap into someone with those skills to make it work. </div><div>In the end, the price was right and people loved them. They also make great &quot;business cards&quot; for your work. I opted for double sided printing and put reviews from book bloggers on the back, which is especially helpful when you're giving it to someone who has never heard of you or your book.</div><div><a href="https://www.vistaprint.com/marketing-materials/bookmarks?txi=17181&amp;xnid=TopNav_Bookmarks+(linked+item)_Marketing+Materials_All+Products&amp;xnav=TopNav">Here's the link to the bookmark I ordered</a>. Cool thing with Vista Print is that it will save your order in your account history and you can reorder with just a few clicks. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_2614eca5da0c4a799f27d98617780abb~mv2.png"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_de923be1db2349068d58f016896c9660~mv2.png"/><div>I'll keep adding to this post if I find new swag items that people enjoy! </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>My Tips for Researching a Small Publisher</title><description><![CDATA[I work at a community college and we get calls from folks in the community from time to time wondering if we have resources on different things. Last week, someone called wanting to know if we had any resources on self-publishing.Our college doesn't have anything like that, but the person who took the call asked if I’d reach out to them. While I’m not self-published I did have a bit of a flashback to spring of 2016 when I was offered a publishing deal from a small, indie pub called BookFish<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/a04ac0cde13c4cadb5e47f2d58d8f51a.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/a04ac0cde13c4cadb5e47f2d58d8f51a.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/10/25/My-Tips-for-Researching-a-Small-Publisher</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/10/25/My-Tips-for-Researching-a-Small-Publisher</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Oct 2017 15:53:12 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/a04ac0cde13c4cadb5e47f2d58d8f51a.jpg"/><div>I work at a community college and we get calls from folks in the community from time to time wondering if we have resources on different things. Last week, someone called wanting to know if we had any resources on self-publishing.</div><div>Our college doesn't have anything like that, but the person who took the call asked if I’d reach out to them. While I’m not self-published I did have a bit of a flashback to spring of 2016 when I was offered a publishing deal from a small, indie pub called BookFish Books (who ended up publishing Meet Me Under the Stars). I remember doing some digging to find out all I could.</div><div>While there weren't any red flags against them, there were several nightmare stories about other small pubs. When you read those, you can't help but wonder if it's worth it? Is it worth going with a small publisher when so many people have had terrible experiences?</div><div>It got me thinking about the process I took to research BookFish to make sure it's a good fit for me. Because let’s be real….no publishing deal is better than a shitty publishing deal. And getting out of a shitty deal isn’t always easy.</div><div>A few ground rules...</div><div>1. Remember that there are several paths to publishing. Self-publishing, agents, small publisher. My path may not be your path. </div><div>2. Not all small pubs are created equal. With more and more news lately of small pubs closing up shop, it is absolutely important that you ask questions. These questions are just the tip of the iceberg and are in no way a guarantee that you'll be free and clear. </div><div>3. With that said, the best indicator of if a publisher is--or isn't--right for you? Your gut. Trust your gut. </div><div>The Big List of Questions</div><div>The following list was created based on my conversations with other authors who went the small publishing route. </div><div>PUBLISHER WEBSITE</div><div>Take a look at it and the URL (the web address). </div><div>Does the website look outdated in design and feel?Does the URL have things like “….blogspot.com” or “…wordpress.com” or “wixpages.com?”When was the last book published?Make note of the staff/employee list and compare it to the published author list—how many staff members are published with them?Do they require fees for reading your submission? Or to publish your book? Or do they have clauses on their site that if you query them with your manuscript that you cannot query anyone else?Look at the editors listed on their site. Normally they’re freelance editors who split their time between several indie publishers. Google them—find out what books they’ve worked on and purchase a copy or two if the books fall into your genre. While the book is written by the author, the editor plays a large role in getting that puppy into shape.</div><div>RED FLAGS FOR A PUBLISHER SITE:</div><div>URL listings of “blogspot” “wordress” or “wix” means the publisher is using a free platform.Why would a publisher need a “free” platform?Look at the number of books published by staff members.If there are more books published by employees than published by authors, which could be a problem.If a publisher is requiring fees of any kind—they are not a publisher.They are a service (aka Vanity Publisher) to help you get your book published. These publishing sites are actually a great option for those who are self-publishing because they offer a ‘one stop shop’ for things like editing, cover design, etc.</div><div>IT MAY FEEL LIKE A RED FLAG BUT IT MAY NOT BE</div><div>The number of books that are put out each year could be an issue. If they publish hundreds of books a year, how are they ensuring quality edits, cover design, marketing, etc.? If they publish only a handful of books a year—why so few?</div><div>PUBLISHER’S AUTHORS</div><div>Reach out to the authors who are not employees. Ask them:</div><div>Why did they choose the publisher?Were the emails from the publisher professional? Did they answer questions you may have? Did they answer those questions in a timely manner (standard practice is usually within 48-72 business hours).How was your editing experience? Did you get edits in a timely fashion? Were the notes thorough? Was the editing process a team effort (where the authors has say) or were you overruled?Did you feel supported every step of the way?If not, what support were you missing?How many editing passes did you have?What was the typical turn around for those passes?Do you feel your book is a stronger, better product?Are you proud of the book that is out on the shelves?<div>Did you receive royalty payments in a timely fashion? (NOTE:It is not appropriate to ask (a) what their royalty payments were and (b) what is the percentage noted in their contract)</div>Did you have a say in the cover design? Are you pleased with the end product?What was the publicity like for your book? What publicity were authors expected to do?Is there anything you wish you would’ve done different?Are you publishing another book with this publisher? If no, why not?Overall, are you glad you went with this publisher?</div><div>RED FLAGS FOR PUBLISHED AUTHORS</div><div>If the publisher gets upset that you’ve reached out to authors, that’s a HUGE red flag.Tone of the email—while tone can be hard to filter in an email, you can tell if someone is unhappy with their experience but putting on a brave face.If several authors share a common theme that is concerning—royalty payments not being sent, unsupportive environment, etc.--this could be a reason to decline the offer.</div><div>IT MAY FEEL LIKE A RED FLAG BUT IT MAY NOT BE</div><div>If an author isn’t publishing with this publisher again—that isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Their next book may not be a genre that is in that publisher’s genre list.Don’t discount a bad experience, but don’t let one author's so-so experience be the reason you say “no thank you”.<div>If an author says that they had to do &quot;all&quot; the publicity themselves--clarify &quot;all&quot; (sometimes people say they did everything when really, they chose to do it because they didn't feel comfortable letting others do it). Keep in mind that more and more publishers (even the Big 6) require authors to do some publicity. Check with the publisher to see what their expectations are around publicity for your book.</div></div><div>PUBLISHER QUESTIONS</div><div>While authors are a good source of contact to get the inside scoop, it’s also good to ask questions of your publisher. Ask them:</div><div>What is the typical turnaround time from accepting the contract for publication and books hitting the shelves? (common turnaround time is usually 10-12 months, with some publishers taking longer) Is that date negotiable?What is the publicity/marketing plan for my book? What am I expected to do regarding publicity/marketing? Am I permitted to hire an outside PR firm to help with release day promo and reviews?If I have concerns with my editor, who do I speak with?When are the ARC’s generally available for read/review opportunities? Will you get copies that you can pass out to author friends and people you trust?What is their policy for piracy sites?Are there opportunities for me to work with book promo/sales sites like BookBub, Instafreebie, etc.?With the number of stories of small pubs closing—how is the stability?What format are books sold?Are books sold on multiple websites (Amazon, B&amp;N, Kobo, iTunes, Smashwords, etc)Have you had to return book rights to any authors in the last 12 months.</div><div>RED FLAGS FOR PUBLISHERS:</div><div>If the publisher skirts your questions or replies with things like, “Don’t worry…trust us…we’ll take care of it…”If the publisher promises that you’ll make best seller lists. No publisher can promise that.And if they do, they’re cheating the system—that’s not good.Publishers may paint a rosy outlook on their company’s stability. The biggest sign of things not going well are (a) authors not getting their royalty checks in a timely fashion and (b) authors being let out of their contracts/having the rights returned.</div><div>Let’s talk about the common searches that people do when researching a small publisher and discuss the pros and cons of each.</div><div>ABSOLUTE WRITE WATER COOLER MESSAGE BOARDS </div><div>Absolute Write is a great community that allows you to talk and share insight on publishing, querying, etc. You can often look at threads on the message boards by not logging in, but sometimes a login is required.</div><div>PRO:</div><div>It is anonymous, so authors who have had problems in the past with a publisher can keep their identity protected.</div><div>CON:</div><div>Not everyone uses Absolute Write. So an author who had a bad experience may not choose to out the experience publically.Usually people don’t stumble upon Absolute Write unless they’re doing a search for the publisher.As such, the information is usually outdated.Everyone is a critic—people who have never published with small presses are quick to chime in and tell others to run like the wind.</div><div>AMAZON </div><div>Amazon has become a bit of an author mecca. Self-published authors and small presses love Amazon because of the reach, but also because printed versions can be done POD (Print on Demand), meaning that a bookstore doesn’t have to buy stock that may never be sold. </div><div>PRO:</div><div>Reviews are a great barometer to see a book’s success—look to see when the last review was posted.Was it recent? Or around the date of launch?Rankings give you an idea of how the book is doing overall.</div><div>CON:</div><div>Amazon is notorious for pulling reviews if they feel there is a personal connection between reviewer and author. While this is commendable so that books aren’t being reviewed by mom, grandma, siblings and everyone else….a low review count can give the impression that the book isn’t doing well.Rankings can fluctuate like crazy from one day to the next. I had a book ranking at 450,000 and then overnight it jumped to 75,000. So just because a person’s ranking is 850,000 in ALL of amazon, doesn’t mean their book is bad.</div><div>PUBLISHERS MARKETPLACE</div><div>If you follow any author on social media, they will often post a screen shot of their blurb in Publisher’s Marketplace announcing the deal. There is a fee to access the marketplace. </div><div>PRO:</div><div>Using this service keeps the publisher in front of the public, showing that they’re making active deals.</div><div>CON:</div><div>If an author is working with the publisher for book two or three in a series—books that weren’t part of the original deal—they may not get published in the marketplace.On the rare occasion, some authors don’t want their deal made public.</div><div>Again, this list is not all inclusive. So, I’ve turned on the comments. If you’ve published with a small, indie publisher—what did you look for? Let’s help others make the research process easier so that they can make informed decisions.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>SWEET REALITY is LIVE!</title><description><![CDATA[]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/09/05/SWEET-REALITY-is-LIVE</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/09/05/SWEET-REALITY-is-LIVE</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 Sep 2017 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/cce484_2b8ec95d6a7894a5419de13d9d3da84a.html"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>SWEET REALITY Excerpt and Giveaway!</title><description><![CDATA[So....about a year ago, Laura posted in our debut novel group, The 17 Scribes, about book 2 in her series. She wanted to make sure it could really be read as a stand alone novel. Not having read book 1, I offered to read book 2. I got a copy and while I can't remember what I had for lunch on Monday, I know for a fact I couldn't put it down because I still think about that book almost a year later.I love this book.LOVE IT. LOVE IT. LOOOOOOOVVVVEEEEEE IT.And I am excited to host a little sneaky<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_e0efef40f5204050b523f7a08d55b3d1%7Emv2_d_1600_2400_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_470%2Ch_704/28b840_e0efef40f5204050b523f7a08d55b3d1%7Emv2_d_1600_2400_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/08/09/SWEET-REALITY-Except-and-Giveaway</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/08/09/SWEET-REALITY-Except-and-Giveaway</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2017 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>So....about a year ago, Laura posted in our debut novel group, The 17 Scribes, about book 2 in her series. She wanted to make sure it could really be read as a stand alone novel. Not having read book 1, I offered to read book 2. </div><div>I got a copy and while I can't remember what I had for lunch on Monday, I know for a fact I couldn't put it down because I still think about that book almost a year later.</div><div>I love this book.</div><div>LOVE IT. LOVE IT. LOOOOOOOVVVVEEEEEE IT.</div><div>And I am excited to host a little sneaky peek of her book coming out September 5th.</div><div>Oh. AND THERE'S A GIVEAWAY!! *flails*</div><div>Check out this sassy pants cover....</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_e0efef40f5204050b523f7a08d55b3d1~mv2_d_1600_2400_s_2.jpg"/><div>Synopsis</div><div>SUGAR, SEA SALT, AND SHOW BIZ Jen Reid's life after walking off a reality show has been great--she's gone from being a broke twenty-four-year-old Seattleite with no love life and no job to the twenty-five-year-old who got the guy, moved to Miami, and is starting a bakery with her best friend. She thinks her showmance love might be about to propose. And with mouthwatering goodies based on everyone's favorite shows, her business, Sweet Reality, is destined for success.</div><div>That is, until a killer competitor opens right across the street. If she's going to save Sweet Reality, Jen has to come up with a secret ingredient--like the recipe that won Totally 80s Bake-Off. Jen can get it--if she steps back into the spotlight. Soon she and her boyfriend are out to sea on a cruise ship full of reality stars, including her nemesis, Ariana; her lying, cheating ex; and some wicked producers looking to bring the drama. Separate cabins, &quot;surprises&quot; from her past, and scenarios tailor-made to spark fights are just the beginning. But with her self-respect, her business, and her future on the line, the fallout from this made-for-TV plotline will be all too real . . .</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_013137e86f8647919627bdaf7e21188a~mv2.jpg"/><div>Excerpt</div><div> Sarah kissed both our cheeks before pulling away and handed me a small, clear plastic container. “You’re the best, both of you. I gotta go before they tow my car. Love you all, I’ll see you next Sunday. Bring me alcohol, and try not to get into any trouble. Especially you, Ed.”</div><div> He winked at her, and Justin pulled her aside, supposedly to talk about their mother for a minute before dropping our suitcases with the porter. I suspected he had another reason for this conversation, which made me grin far more than I should at the prospect of having my luggage checked.</div><div> This excitement would not be contained. Nearly two years ago, I’d been so sure my ex-boyfriend planned to propose right before I found out he was married. I’d been excited then, but the thought of spending my life with him never sounded as perfect as marrying Justin. He was my other half, the absolute best partner for me.</div><div> Sarah winked at me over his shoulder, her way of telling me she’d slipped him the ring. I shifted my weight from one foot to the other, wishing I could share my excitement with someone, but got distracted by the massive ocean liner casting shadows over the dock. More specifically, by the lifeboats.</div><div> Eyeing the orange rubber vessels lining the sides, I turned to Ed. “Do you think they brought enough lifeboats?”</div><div> “Yes. Also, this isn’t the Titanic. We’re not gonna sink. We have communications devices to call for help. And you, Jen, have your very own hunky stud in Justin to save you if anything goes wrong. Relax. Take your Dramamine.”</div><div> I rooted around in my carry-on for a moment before giving up. “My Dramamine must be in my big suitcase . . . which I probably shouldn’t have given to him to check. At least not without putting this Tupperware in first. The carry-on is about to burst.”</div><div> Ed gestured at the container Sarah handed me before leaving. “What’s that for?”</div><div> “So I can bring her one of Tammy Rae’s cupcakes. They’re doing a tasting after the bake-off tomorrow, remember?”</div><div> One of the onboard events pitted reality stars against each other in a baking competition, which Ed apparently forgot to sign up for. Hopefully, he wasn’t going to wing it. My friend created excellent meals for everyone while we were in the Fishbowl, but his laissez-faire attitude to cooking wouldn’t produce the same delicious results in baked goods.</div><div> Instead of competing against Ed, I signed up to judge with Justin. Partially as a way of getting on Tammy Rae’s good side, and partially because rumors said everyone involved got to sample her winning cupcakes after the event. I needed to be in the right place to snag one. Well, two. One for me, one for Sarah. Then I could verify whether these things tasted as good as the inter-webs claimed and butter Tammy Rae up by raving about what a baking genius she was before begging for a favor.</div><div> Where was Tammy Rae? Hopefully she hadn’t changed her mind and canceled at the last minute. According to E-Entertainment News Online, she’d mysteriously pulled out of Celebrity Poker Match a few years back, despite being a favorite to win. I scanned the docks, looking for her.</div><div> With luck, the recipe would be in my hand and I’d be lounging by the pool before the ship arrived in our first port. But one thing at a time. First, Justin and I needed to thoroughly explore and “enjoy” our cabin. Our glorious private cabin where we wouldn’t have to worry about my boyfriend’s sister or his somewhat creepy roommate hearing us through the paper-thin walls of our respective apartments. Or well, at least we wouldn’t know the people on the other side of our walls, so it wouldn’t matter what they heard.</div><div> Ed’s voice called me away from those thoughts, back to our conversation.</div><div> “What?” I asked.</div><div> “I said, calm down. Justin will be back soon, Tammy Rae will arrive before the ship leaves, and your suitcase, with Dramamine, will be delivered to your cabin sooner rather than later.”</div><div> “Why didn’t I take seasick pills before leaving home?” I moaned. “Why am I doing this?”</div><div> “You mean, freaking out over nothing? I couldn’t tell you.” Ed hugged me. “Really, Jen, you’ll be fine. I’ve cruised before. You won’t feel a thing.”</div><div> Finally, Justin walked toward us, sans luggage. I found myself relaxing as he put an arm around my waist and squeezed. I kissed him.</div><div> “Ugh. Lovebirds!” Ed moaned. “Get a room!”</div><div> “Hey, Ed, isn’t your boyfriend around here?” Justin asked good-naturedly. “Why don’t you go find him?”</div><div> Ed met his boyfriend Connor, formerly known to me only as Curly Beard, while filming The Fishbowl. Although the Network strictly prohibited staff from socializing with the contestants, they still found a way to make a connection. More importantly, they’d managed to keep it going ever since. The Network promoted Connor from production assistant to camera operator, and Ed recently moved from Boston to Los Angeles to be with him while pursuing a stand-up comedy career. I couldn’t have been happier for them.</div><div> “He’s doing some pre-boarding filming. I’m not allowed,” he said to Justin. “Besides, someone had to keep your belle here from having a panic attack. Did you know she gets seasick?”</div><div> Justin tilted his head at me the way he did when he didn’t want to say he thought I wasn’t being one hundred percent truthful. “You never mentioned that. You do?”</div><div> “I don’t know. When I was in high school, I threw up on the swan boats at the local fair.”</div><div> “Wasn’t that right after you bought tacos out of some guy’s van? Because I’m not sure that was the boat’s fault.”</div><div> This was the problem with dating someone long enough for them to hear all your stories. “Maybe…”</div><div> “You’ll be fine!” Ed said. “Now, let’s go before they take off without us.”</div><div> “Depart,” I said. “Or set sail.”</div><div> “Whatever.” Ed took off for the ship, luggage in tow.</div><div> “What’s really wrong?” Justin asked.</div><div> He gazed into my eyes until I realized I’d been freaking out over nothing. “I don’t know. I’ve been on edge all week. Partially it’s the bakery. What if Sarah can’t come up with new recipes? What if Tammy Rae hates me?”</div><div> “You are a resourceful, brilliant woman. You can be very persuasive. Plus, Sarah’s a genius in the kitchen. Even if Tammy Rae says no, the two of you will come up with something.”</div><div> I sighed. “You’re right, I’m sorry. I’m being stupid. I don’t know why I’m so jittery.”</div><div> Behind me, someone walked by wearing a t-shirt showing a woman with long, dark hair, pouting out from the inside of a clear fishbowl. And suddenly, I realized exactly why I felt so on edge: Ariana. The one person who could always make me act like my brain took a vacation without my body. No one confirmed whether she’d be onboard. I couldn’t relax until we set sail without her.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_cc163e1109d44d95be2a102eebabdfd6~mv2.jpg"/><div>Giveaway</div><div>Enter for a chance at a $20 Amazon Gift Card. If the widget isn't showing, you can enter by <a href="http://www.rafflecopter.com/rafl/display/b1257f8d94/?">clicking here</a>.</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/cce484_f99aa37571055be58347d57eacf2caab.html"/><div>About the Author</div><div>Laura Heffernan is living proof that watching too much TV can pay off. When not watching total strangers get married, drag racing queens, or cooking competitions, Laura enjoys travel, baking, board games, helping with writing contests, and seeking new experiences. She lives in the Northeast with her amazing husband and two furry little beasts.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_7af9bbf9189e46a08c9486ea76ea24cc~mv2.jpg"/><div>Connect with Laura</div><div><a href="http://bit.ly/2tXagfL">Newsletter Sign Up</a></div><div><a href="http://bit.ly/2s3Cq7J">Facebook Author Page</a></div><div><a href="http://bit.ly/2sySwcP">Goodreads Author Page</a></div><div><a href="http://bit.ly/2tCbFsT">Twitter</a></div><div><a href="http://bit.ly/2wEDilT">Instagram</a></div><div><a href="http://amzn.to/2sJNQz8">Amazon Author Page</a></div><div><a href="http://bit.ly/2umbMwF">BookBub Author Page</a></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>11 Sleeps, but Who's Counting?</title><description><![CDATA[Me.I’m counting.ELEVEN SLEEPS until my book is out in the world. Currently it’s like riding a roller coaster. That excitement as you crest the first hill, but then the first death-defying drop makes your stomach bottom out and you feel like you’ll either, puke, pass out or die.And if you scroll to the bottom of this post, you'll see links for a FREE Sample to my book! AHHH!!!!Anyway, this week I’ve been at home taking care of the Big Guy (side note: that’s an old nickname from my blogging days<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_740451b65b3a4c18aa21f6f98e5864ec%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.png/v1/fill/w_470%2Ch_470/28b840_740451b65b3a4c18aa21f6f98e5864ec%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.png"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/07/07/11-Sleeps-but-Whos-Counting</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/07/07/11-Sleeps-but-Whos-Counting</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Jul 2017 15:42:04 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_740451b65b3a4c18aa21f6f98e5864ec~mv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.png"/><div>Me.</div><div>I’m counting.</div><div>ELEVEN SLEEPS until my book is out in the world. Currently it’s like riding a roller coaster. That excitement as you crest the first hill, but then the first death-defying drop makes your stomach bottom out and you feel like you’ll either, puke, pass out or die.</div><div>And if you scroll to the bottom of this post, you'll see links for a FREE Sample to my book! AHHH!!!!</div><div>Anyway, this week I’ve been at home taking care of the Big Guy (side note: that’s an old nickname from my blogging days for my husband. Back then he was 100+ pounds heavier than he is now) (I'm keeping his identity private, but the difference is staggering! So proud of him!) (And for the record he chose the name, not me). He had hip surgery and I’ve been doing double duty with his care and my own book launch stuff because....</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_82b6018ef0d14ad1a490f5045e4b68d5~mv2.png"/><div>I was searching for a line in my book to make a teaser and ran across a scene that I thought would be fun for a little back story--or as I’m calling it: an Easter egg for my camp friends to find. If you want to know more about the Easter egg’s, you can read my first (*cough* and only, sadly *cough*) <a href="http://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/05/19/Friday-Funny—Easter-Eggs-in-my-Book">here…</a></div><div>Here’s the line from the book from Charlie's point of view. She has an incredible fear of heights and looking up at that wall is enough to make her want to puke (no worries...not a spoiler)...</div><div>When the climbing wall becomes visible in the distance, I break out in a cold sweat. Why did Kip have to build the damn thing to be the tallest in Colorado?</div><div>When I worked at Camp Lincoln and Camp Lake Hubert as a seasonal staff member, we didn’t have a climbing wall. The high ropes course (which is just as amazing) was as high as you were going to get. But when I came back in 2002 to work full time, we now had a climbing wall. </div><div>This thing is AWESOME.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_35c2a2a2542a44beb453a9a5cb733d6d~mv2.jpg"/><div><a href="http://www.lincoln-lakehubert.com">Source: Camp Lincoln Camp Lake Hubert</a></div><div>Not only is it double sided, but the smallest kids can belay because of these cement posts that belay runners are hooked into for their own safety. I've climbed this wall and it was fun to have a camper run your belay line--supervised by the staff, of course.</div><div>Anyway. When the wall was being built, one of the camp directors did his research to find the tallest climbing wall (at the time) in Minnesota. So when our wall was being designed, he made sure it went beyond that. </div><div>Here’s the funny part.</div><div>Camp directors are constantly raising the stakes on one another. Rumor had it that another camp in Minnesota rebuilt their wall and made it taller than the one Camp Lincoln and Camp Lake Hubert built.</div><div>#competative</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_717e5126a9404620a2afc0472dd19e7c~mv2.png"/><div>Want to read a sample of my book? You can get the first few chapters FREE on <a href="https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/731366">Smashwords</a> (if you use a Kindle, choose the MOBI format), as well as <a href="https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/meet-me-under-the-stars-kd-proctor/1126618627?ean=2940154421673">Barnes &amp; Noble</a> (for nook readers) and <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/book/meet-me-under-the-stars/id1250638288?mt=11">iTunes</a> (for iBooks--to read on your iPhone or iPad). </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Guest Post:  What's it Like to be on Author Submission?</title><description><![CDATA[I love summer. While I don't love the heat or the mosquitoes, I do love the longer days and still being light out until 9:30 p.m..Know what else I love about summer? Contest season on Twitter for authors! There's Query Kombat...PitMad...and the ever popular Pitch Wars. The purpose of those contests is to get query ready (read: a complete, polished manuscript) out in front of agents where they could request to see more of your work.And while more agent signings happen outside of these contests<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_82e2abe15d394d468140abe9c21c6729%7Emv2.png/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_312/28b840_82e2abe15d394d468140abe9c21c6729%7Emv2.png"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/06/07/Guest-Post-Whats-it-Like-to-be-on-Author-Submission</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/06/07/Guest-Post-Whats-it-Like-to-be-on-Author-Submission</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jun 2017 15:10:10 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_82e2abe15d394d468140abe9c21c6729~mv2.png"/><div>I love summer. While I don't love the heat or the mosquitoes, I do love the longer days and still being light out until 9:30 p.m..</div><div>Know what else I love about summer? Contest season on Twitter for authors! There's Query Kombat...PitMad...and the ever popular Pitch Wars. The purpose of those contests is to get query ready (read: a complete, polished manuscript) out in front of agents where they could request to see more of your work.</div><div>And while more agent signings happen outside of these contests than in them, they DO help get the momentum going for authors to know if their work is hitting the mark or not.</div><div>But signings DO happen from these contests--so when it happens for you, and you have that agent helping you polish that manuscript even more, they'll then send your book baby off into the world known as submission. Publishers are given a copy of your manuscript and your agent is saying, &quot;So...wanna buy it?&quot;</div><div>Have you ever wondered what that's like on an author's end, though? Me, too. My writer friend Laura Heffernan, author of the fun, flirty, swoony book America's Next Reality Star (as well as Sweet Reality--coming this fall, and book 3 set for a later pub. date) has some great insight as to what that was like. Her take on it is a cute--but deeply humbling--story that I think will make a lot of sense to all of us.</div><div>Here's what she had to say:</div><div>Imagine you’ve finally received an invitation to an exclusive restaurant. It’s so exclusive, no one knows what they serve or what it looks like on the outside, but people spend a year or more waiting to get in. Reservations are by referral only. Referrals can take months or even years to get. You’re not allowed to bring anyone else inside with you, not even the friends who’ve shared the waiting. By the time the doors open, you’re desperately hungry. Your mouth starts watering while you stand in the foyer.</div><div>Once you’ve finally made it inside, your waiter leads you to a random table. There are no menus. “We’ll bring you something to eat when it’s ready,” he says before vanishing. </div><div>Other people join your table. Some of them get served before you. They’re not allowed to share. Some people leave without getting served at all. They may or may not come back. When you ask where your food is, the waiters hush you and tell you to be patient. You can’t complain that someone else’s food came first, because you’re so lucky to be at the table. You can’t post about the restaurant online, because if you do, they kick you out.</div><div>So you wait. And you watch. You hunger. Your food may or may not come. You might not like your meal once it arrives. Someone else’s food might look better or smell better or they might enjoy it more. And you could be left watching everyone who joined you at the table devour their food, while you stare at any empty place setting. All you can do is hope your food eventually comes.</div><div>This restaurant, of course, is called “On Submission.” Welcome to the table. Now shush, and wait your turn.**</div><div>About Laura</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_7af9bbf9189e46a08c9486ea76ea24cc~mv2.jpg"/><div>Laura Heffernan is living proof that watching too much TV can pay off: AMERICA’S NEXT REALITY STAR (Kensington/Lyrical) is available now! When not watching total strangers participate in arranged marriages, drag racing queens, or cooking competitions, Laura enjoys travel, baking, board games, helping with writing contests, and seeking new experiences. She lives in the northeast with her amazing husband and two furry little beasts. Follow her on <a href="http://www.twitter.com/lh_writes">Twitter</a> or find her on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/lauraheffernanbooks">Facebook</a>.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_10c39fd9fa5b4bac9e9a4e50fae71345~mv2.jpg"/><div><div>Get Americas Next Reality Star </div>at <a href="http://amzn.to/28PBk9H">Amazon</a>, <a href="http://tinyurl.com/ANRS-BN">Barnes &amp; Noble</a>, <a href="http://tinyurl.com/ANRSKobo">Kobo</a>, <a href="http://tinyurl.com/ANRS-iBooks">iBooks</a>, and <a href="http://tinyurl.com/ANRS-Google">Google Play</a></div><div>**This article was originally posted on The Writer Diaries in March 2015 as &quot;Dear Diary: You're Invited,&quot; and it resonated with a lot of people. Reprinted with permission.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Friday Funny—Easter Eggs in my Book</title><description><![CDATA[If you’re a fan of animated Disney films from over the last 30 years, you’ll be very familiar with this phrase: Easter Eggs.No. I’m not talking about the kind you hide at Easter.Side note…true story: as a kid, my grandma would have an Easter Egg hunt in the form of jelly beans. Every family member had a color (my mom always had the black ones because she was the only one in the family who liked black licorice. *gross*). It never failed—usually around Thanksgiving someone would ask, “Hey…who had<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_90f2b39b5fb84cd292226f8dedb78e4c%7Emv2_d_2048_1715_s_2.png/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_523/28b840_90f2b39b5fb84cd292226f8dedb78e4c%7Emv2_d_2048_1715_s_2.png"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/05/19/Friday-Funny%E2%80%94Easter-Eggs-in-my-Book</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/05/19/Friday-Funny%E2%80%94Easter-Eggs-in-my-Book</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 May 2017 15:23:48 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_90f2b39b5fb84cd292226f8dedb78e4c~mv2_d_2048_1715_s_2.png"/><div>If you’re a fan of animated Disney films from over the last 30 years, you’ll be very familiar with this phrase: Easter Eggs.</div><div>No. I’m not talking about the kind you hide at Easter.</div><div>Side note…true story: as a kid, my grandma would have an Easter Egg hunt in the form of jelly beans. Every family member had a color (my mom always had the black ones because she was the only one in the family who liked black licorice. *gross*). It never failed—usually around Thanksgiving someone would ask, “Hey…who had green for the Easter Egg hunt? I found one of your jelly beans.”</div><div>Anyway.</div><div>In Disney movies, there are always several Easter Eggs that pop up from previous movies. For example, in the movie Aladdin, Sebastian the crab from the Little Mermaid makes an appearance. And for Disney lovers, finding those Easter Eggs is part of the Disney experience.</div><div>When I wrote my book, I purposely put several Easter Eggs from the summer camp I worked at throughout the book. Camp is full of tradition and I made sure that I snuck a few of those in there. So for the next few weeks until release day, I’m going to share with you some of those Easter Eggs—and maybe a passage or two.</div><div>Today’s Easter Egg: Sugar Daddies.</div><div>Not the candy.</div><div>No. Indeed...I do mean that kind of sugar daddy—the old man kind of sugar daddy.</div><div>I know.</div><div>In a book set at a summer camp?</div><div>Yep.</div><div>Here’s a sweet little teaser from my book. Nate and Charlie are setting up a video shoot. Charlie needs to make a YouTube video in order to save her job as the host of a wildly popular DIY television show (…think Martha Stewart meets Fixer Upper…). Nate is running the camera and they’re getting ready to hit record when he asks…</div><div>“Did you want to be in the video?”</div><div>I nod. “That’s kind of the point.”</div><div>“Did you want to wear that? Because you’re covered in so much glitter you look like a dancer down at Sugar Daddies.” He tips his head in my direction, and I look down. He’s right. A paint-splotched tank covered in glitter isn’t exactly screaming I’m the best person for the job.</div><div>I dig in my bag for my fleece jacket. “Do I even want to know when you were at a strip club?”</div><div>“Probably not.”</div><div>©2017 <a href="http://www.bookfishbooks.com">BookfishBooks</a></div><div>There are only so many ways that you can get to the summer camp I used to work at. And on the way? Yep. You pass a strip club named Sugar Daddy’s. I changed the spelling, of course (going plural instead of singular/possessive). </div><div>And I’d bet that if I surveyed the camp staff, they'd tell me that at least once every summer, some of them end up there just to see what it’s all about.</div><div>Of course, the banter between my characters in this scene continues--Nate and Charlie can't seem to stay away from one another, when they both know distance is probably the best thing. </div><div>But I’ll leave that for you to discover when my book comes out July 18th.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Teaser Tuesday--It's Okay if you Don't Like my Book</title><description><![CDATA[First off, in true Teaser Tuesday fashion...here is this week's teaser.I love teasers like this where the author takes a few sentences from the book and matches them up with fun photos. In this scene, Nate and Charlie are having some make up sexy times (which isn't as "make up" as it seems when Nate puts his heart on the line--again--and Charlie freaks out--again.).Now that my book is finishing up the final edits, the reality is setting in that people are...you know...actually going to read this<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_6a85988535374d05a0983c0b060357d1%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_470%2Ch_470/28b840_6a85988535374d05a0983c0b060357d1%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/04/25/Teaser-Tuesday--Its-Okay-if-you-Dont-Like-my-Book</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/04/25/Teaser-Tuesday--Its-Okay-if-you-Dont-Like-my-Book</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Apr 2017 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>First off, in true Teaser Tuesday fashion...here is this week's teaser.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_6a85988535374d05a0983c0b060357d1~mv2.jpg"/><div>I love teasers like this where the author takes a few sentences from the book and matches them up with fun photos. In this scene, Nate and Charlie are having some make up sexy times (which isn't as &quot;make up&quot; as it seems when Nate puts his heart on the line--again--and Charlie freaks out--again.).</div><div>Now that my book is finishing up the final edits, the reality is setting in that people are...you know...actually going to read this thing?</div><div>*gulp*</div><div>And the authors who said they'd read and blurb my book for me are also currently reading it.</div><div>*double gulp*</div><div>This anxiety is attached to the idea that my friends and family are all so excited about my book coming out that I'm in a weird predicament and experiencing something I never thought I would... </div><div>The Guilt Factor.</div><div>I know for a fact that a number of my friends don't like romance novels. Same with my family members. And here I am, standing on that street corner peddling my book asking people to take a chance on me.</div><div>Long story short, I never want my friends, family or coworkers to feel like they have to read my book. They don't. I want them to read my book because...well...they want to. </div><div>And as reviewers are starting to sign up for ARC's (Advanced Reader Copies) and will be splashing their reviews all over the internet, I know that not everyone will like it.</div><div>Some are going to love Charlie.</div><div>Some are going to swoon over Nate.</div><div>Others are going to call Charlie a heartless bitch.</div><div>Others will say Nate is an idiot for continuing to fall for Charlie again and again.</div><div>Some will cheer Charlie and Nate being together.</div><div>Others might DNF.</div><div>Or call it predictable.</div><div>Or say it was amazing.</div><div>Or shrug and say it was good but not a book they'd reread.</div><div>To which I say: it's okay.</div><div>Those reviews can't change the book. The book is published. It's done. I can't go back and change Charlie's reaction or Nate's words. Those reviews aren't for me, they're for other readers. You see, at the end of the day, I am proud of the book I wrote. Quirks and all. </div><div>It's okay if you don't.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>My Aunt is Going to Run Out of Room in her Prayer Journal with this Cover Reveal…</title><description><![CDATA[True story: I have an aunt who keeps a prayer journal. And I’m in it.Not because I’m her niece. Okay. Well, I’m sure there are a few pages in there for me being the wonderful niece I am. After all, I'm not one to turn down someone sending a prayer or two my way. Hell, right now I need all the prayers I can get these days. No. I'm in there because I wrote a romance novel that has…*whispers* sex scenes. It’s become kind of a running joke between me, my writing friends and my editors. “My aunt is<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_dae48af692c14e66bb8b20635d0d4ad2%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_288%2Ch_423/28b840_dae48af692c14e66bb8b20635d0d4ad2%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/04/17/My-Aunt-is-Going-to-Run-Out-of-Room-in-her-Prayer-Journal-with-this-Cover-Reveal%E2%80%A6</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/04/17/My-Aunt-is-Going-to-Run-Out-of-Room-in-her-Prayer-Journal-with-this-Cover-Reveal%E2%80%A6</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2017 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>True story: I have an aunt who keeps a prayer journal. </div><div>And I’m in it.</div><div>Not because I’m her niece. Okay. Well, I’m sure there are a few pages in there for me being the wonderful niece I am. After all, I'm not one to turn down someone sending a prayer or two my way. Hell, right now I need all the prayers I can get these days. </div><div>No. I'm in there because I wrote a romance novel that has…*whispers* sex scenes. </div><div>It’s become kind of a running joke between me, my writing friends and my editors. “My aunt is going to need to add a page to the prayer journal” I'd say after having to edit a sex scene (I'm such a rookie at this I actually blush) or “my aunt has probably contacted the women’s council at her church because THAT scene is too much for one person’s prayers.”</div><div>Well.</div><div>She’s gonna need to ask the whole damn congregation to put this one in their journals because LORD HAVE MERCY. I’m doing a cover reveal today for a novella that is SMOKIN’ HOT on a subject that is seen as highly taboo.</div><div>Older man.</div><div>Much younger woman.</div><div>Oh. And the older guy is BFF’s with the younger woman’s father.</div><div>Today I get to share the cover for bestie writing duo Brighton Walsh and Ellis Leigh--who are now writing under a new sexy schmexy pen name called London Hale. I'd give these ladies a years supply of super soft leggings and decadent dessert if I could write just one scene of schmexy like they do.</div><div>I have no doubt they are going to hit a home run with this series. </div><div>I mean, can we please look at this cover?</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_dae48af692c14e66bb8b20635d0d4ad2~mv2.jpg"/><div>Description</div><div>She’s temptation personified</div><div>Nathan had always been more than just my dad’s friend. I never thought he’d see me as an adult, especially not after avoiding me for so long. But one hug, one moment feeling every inch of him against me, shattered that illusion. Consequences no longer mattered—I was eighteen, and I was willing to risk everything for my shot with him.</div><div>He’s not going to resist anymore</div><div>I never should’ve seen Eve as more than my best friend’s daughter. As a cop, I knew it was wrong. It was my job to protect her from guys like me. Chasing her could cost me my career—not to mention the only family I’d ever known—but I couldn’t hold back another second. One taste, and I wanted her. To hell with the fallout.</div><div>Can you see why my Aunt is going to put me in her prayer journal?</div><div>Want to know more about London Hale? Scroll down to find their buy links and where they take up residence on the interwebs. </div><div>But before you do you can enter a....</div><div>Giveaway!</div><div>These talented ladies are offering a $25 Amazon gift card! </div><div>All you have to do it click the link and enter the drawing! Easy peasy!</div><div>Drawing ends Tuesday, April 18th at 12:01am EST.</div><div><a href="http://www.rafflecopter.com/rafl/display/22b294fa7/">http://www.rafflecopter.com/rafl/display/22b294fa7/</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_966ea671b3e4436394e646f3a6921a0e~mv2.png"/><div>About London</div><div>London Hale is the combined pen name of writing besties Ellis Leigh and Brighton Walsh. Between them, they’ve published more than thirty books in the contemporary romance, paranormal romance, and romantic suspense genres. Ellis is a USA Today bestselling author who loves coffee, thinks green Skittles are the best, and prefers to stay in every weekend. Brighton is multi-published with Berkley, St. Martin’s Press, and Carina Press. She hates coffee, thinks green Skittles are the work of the devil, and has never heard of a party she didn’t want to attend. Don’t ask how they became such good friends or work so well together—they still haven’t figured it out themselves.</div><div>Where to Find London</div><div>Goodreads: <a href="http://bit.ly/DBF-good">http://bit.ly/DBF-good</a></div><div>Website: <a href="http://www.londonhale.com">http://www.londonhale.com</a></div><div>Facebook Reader Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/bundtandgrind/">https://www.facebook.com/groups/bundtandgrind/</a></div><div>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/haleyeslondon">https://twitter.com/haleyeslondon</a></div><div>Pinterest: <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/londonhale0048/">https://www.pinterest.com/londonhale0048/</a></div><div>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/authorlondonhale/">https://www.instagram.com/authorlondonhale/</a></div><div>Newsletter: <a href="http://www.londonhale.com/gazette">http://www.londonhale.com/gazette</a></div><div>Buy Links</div><div>Amazon US: <a href="http://www.londonhale.com/dbf-azus">http://www.londonhale.com/dbf-azus</a></div><div>Amazon Canada: <a href="http://www.londonhale.com/dbf-azca">http://www.londonhale.com/dbf-azca</a></div><div>Amazon UK: <a href="http://www.londonhale.com/dbf-azuk">http://www.londonhale.com/dbf-azuk</a></div><div>Amazon Australia: <a href="http://www.londonhale.com/dbf-azau">http://www.londonhale.com/dbf-azau</a></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Teaser Tuesday--MY BOOK COVER (Click here to enter the giveaway!)</title><description><![CDATA[I have never been one to draw out suspense. When I was a kid, I would unwrap my Christmas gifts when my mom wasn't looking just so I could see what I was getting. I'm that person who flips to the end of the book to see where things end up. Spoiler alerts on my favorite TV shows? I read them anyway.So I'm not about to drag it out!Isn't it pretty?!?I have to say...I had a great experience working with my publisher, BookFish Books, for this cover. We shared concepts, photos and fonts...I offered<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_f588edc529c143d9a59110ce42804b4a%7Emv2.png/v1/fill/w_470%2Ch_746/28b840_f588edc529c143d9a59110ce42804b4a%7Emv2.png"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/04/11/Teaser-Tuesday--MY-BOOK-COVER</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/04/11/Teaser-Tuesday--MY-BOOK-COVER</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Apr 2017 05:10:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>I have never been one to draw out suspense. When I was a kid, I would unwrap my Christmas gifts when my mom wasn't looking just so I could see what I was getting. I'm that person who flips to the end of the book to see where things end up. Spoiler alerts on my favorite TV shows? I read them anyway.</div><div>So I'm not about to drag it out!</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_f588edc529c143d9a59110ce42804b4a~mv2.png"/><div>Isn't it pretty?!?</div><div>I have to say...I had a great experience working with my publisher, <a href="http://www.bookfishbooks.com">BookFish Books</a>, for this cover. We shared concepts, photos and fonts...I offered suggestions and they played a bit to see what they could come up with. I count myself extremely lucky because not everyone gets that same experience with their publisher.</div><div>They've been in my corner since day one. And for that, I am really, really grateful. </div><div>To celebrate my cover release, I'm also giving away two (2) $15 Amazon Gift Cards! I'm a stickler for the rules, so if you want some extra chances to win, be sure to follow me on social media, sign up for my newsletter and so on. </div><div>To enter the giveaway, click this link:</div><div><a href="https://www.rafflecopter.com/rafl/display/6d6904f27/?">https://www.rafflecopter.com/rafl/display/6d6904f27/?</a></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Teaser Tuesday--Why a Character You’ll Never Meet is one of my Favorites</title><description><![CDATA[I love writing these Teaser Tuesday posts because I get to share stuff about my book without actually giving away the plot! Today, I’m going to talk about one of my favorite secondary characters: Gwen Conti. Otherwise known as the girl who died. As always, here are the inspiration pics for her:Don’t worry.I didn’t spoil anything. We know from the first line of the book that she's no longer alive.Who is she?Gwen is Charlie’s older sister. She and Charlie are extremely close, since their dad was<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_df732564698840a8a73ffa4fc24f8f30%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_470%2Ch_470/28b840_df732564698840a8a73ffa4fc24f8f30%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/04/11/Teaser-Tuesday--Why-a-Character-You%E2%80%99ll-Never-Meet-is-one-of-my-Favorites</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/04/11/Teaser-Tuesday--Why-a-Character-You%E2%80%99ll-Never-Meet-is-one-of-my-Favorites</guid><pubDate>Tue, 04 Apr 2017 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>I love writing these Teaser Tuesday posts because I get to share stuff about my book without actually giving away the plot! Today, I’m going to talk about one of my favorite secondary characters: Gwen Conti. </div><div>Otherwise known as the girl who died. </div><div>As always, here are the inspiration pics for her:</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_df732564698840a8a73ffa4fc24f8f30~mv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg"/><div>Don’t worry.</div><div>I didn’t spoil anything. We know from the first line of the book that she's no longer alive.</div><div>Who is she?</div><div>Gwen is Charlie’s older sister. She and Charlie are extremely close, since their dad was in the Navy and they moved around a lot.</div><div>She’s also the girlfriend of Cam, Nate’s best friend and roommate. Like Nate and Charlie, she met Cam while working at camp that summer 3 years ago.</div><div>Gwen and Charlie attended Camp Pine Haven as kids. The summer before she went to law school, she wanted to work at camp and asked Charlie to come with her. Charlie, of course, thought she was crazy.</div><div>In the early drafts, Gwen was woven into the story much more than she is now. From YouTube videos, to notes left in every place Charlie and Nate visited (kind of like a scavenger hunt), her “voice” was present throughout the entire story.</div><div>Shortly after I wrote and began editing the earlier story, I read a book that had a similar plot line—where a family member died and left notes scattered around for the family member to find, guiding them on their journey.</div><div>And I hated it.</div><div>I hated how forced it felt, like the author was doing everything possible to make sure we knew this person was gone and how they still ruled the roost long after they were gone. </div><div>All I kept thinking was, “Come on family member. Shove that letter in the trash and get on with your life.”</div><div>And that’s when I knew I needed to do that with my story.</div><div>Let the characters live their life. </div><div>Gwen has a will and stipulates what needs to happen—set up a memorial scholarship at the summer camp in my name—but that’s not how I chose to make Gwen’s voice heard in the book.</div><div>Yet. </div><div>She doesn’t utter one word of dialogue.</div><div>There are no flashbacks.</div><div>There are no letters. Or videos. </div><div>I wove her into Cam’s story.</div><div>I left traces of her around the summer camp, but in unique and organic ways that pop out when you’re least expecting it.</div><div>She’s in the sweatshirt Charlie wears—the once she stole from her sister before her death.</div><div>And of course, there is the act of spreading her ashes and the stories they share during that time.</div><div>I’ve thought about writing a prequel to this book—one that is centered on Gwen and Cam’s story. But romance relies on the happily ever after and we all know that Gwen dies and it felt like I’d be cheating readers if I did that. </div><div>For now, I’ll stick with knowing Gwen and Cam had a great relationship and she wants him—and everyone else—to keep her memory alive while they live their lives.</div><div>Next teaser Tuesday we get to see my BOOK COVER!!! AHHHH!!!!</div><div>But the week after that, I’ll talk about camp itself, and how no one outside of camp “gets it”.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Teaser Tuesday--Can You Really Fall in Love in Just 12 Weeks?</title><description><![CDATA[Oh geez.My Google analytic data is going to be so outta whack with that title. Shameless Plug...Dear casual passer by: sorry to disappoint. I don't have any trade secrets to love and relationships. But if you love the idea of being in love, maybe you'll like my debut romance novel MEET ME UNDER THE STARS debuting in July? If so....scroll down and sign up for my newsletter. (I have no shame in my newsletter peddling game)Anyway...Last week I teased the idea of how close people become after<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_f6216f15ea164f3ca6b7adac6e73bb7c%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_470%2Ch_470/28b840_f6216f15ea164f3ca6b7adac6e73bb7c%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/28/Teaser-Tuesday--Can-You-Really-Fall-in-Love-in-Just-12-Weeks</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/28/Teaser-Tuesday--Can-You-Really-Fall-in-Love-in-Just-12-Weeks</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Mar 2017 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Oh geez.</div><div>My Google analytic data is going to be so outta whack with that title. </div><div>Shameless Plug...</div><div>Dear casual passer by: sorry to disappoint. I don't have any trade secrets to love and relationships. But if you love the idea of being in love, maybe you'll like my debut romance novel MEET ME UNDER THE STARS debuting in July? If so....scroll down and sign up for my newsletter. </div><div>(I have no shame in my newsletter peddling game)</div><div>Anyway...</div><div>Last week I teased the idea of how close people become after working at a summer camp for just 12 weeks (and sometimes, in less time than that...). Sticking with our theme, here are some of my favorite couple photos that I’ve had tucked away that remind me of Nate and Charlie…</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_f6216f15ea164f3ca6b7adac6e73bb7c~mv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg"/><div>Are those not adorable?</div><div>And a little bit swoony?</div><div>I like swoony.</div><div>FUN FACT #1: I've made some fun teasers using a few of these pics along with quotes from the book which I'll share once it goes up for pre-order on Amazon.</div><div>FUN FACT #2: One of these pictures may or may not be on the cover of my book. *squeeee*</div><div>Nate &amp; Charlie at a Glance</div><div>They met and dated while working at Camp Pine Haven, a summer camp in the Rocky Mountains outside of Fort Collins. (FYI, Camp Pine Haven isn't a real camp. It's 100% fake)</div><div>Nate said, “I love you” first.</div><div>Charlie, being a celebrity, was cautioned to never say those 3 tiny words unless she knew for certain--because once that got out in public, there was no taking it back. So she wanted to wait to REALLY make sure.</div><div>They attempted long distance and it worked at first. Nate even visited Charlie in South Carolina where she was finishing her degree, and Charlie promised to come to Colorado for his fraternity’s fall formal.</div><div>But she didn’t, because something happened that scared the bejesus out of her--and instead of being mature about it, she cut him off cold turkey. Or as I call it: she ghosted him.</div><div>Nate was heart broken and felt the only way to get over her was to become a player. No relationships means your heart won’t get broken again.</div><div>Oh. If it were only that easy right?</div><div>Because it’s NEVER that easy when it comes to a second chance at love. </div><div>I've talked before about how I used my experience working at a summer camp to set the plot for this book. I mentioned that CP’s and beta readers struggled with the early drafts because it felt very unrealistic to become friends--much less lovers--in just 12 weeks.</div><div>My original reaction was, “Oh my God. Come on. That’s part of camp!”</div><div>That's when I realized I was in trouble.</div><div>Forget writing steamy sexy scenes.</div><div>Trying to explain the uniqueness and the magic of camp was going to be my undoing. </div><div>The only way I could explain it was to relate it to boot camp or a study abroad program where you’re forced together with a group of people in a close knit environment for weeks at a time. A close bond is formed.You get to know people on the most intimate of levels.Including things you wish you never, ever knew.</div><div>But here’s the cool thing: at the end of your summer, you have a bond that is a strong as rebar in concrete.</div><div>And that romantic love?</div><div>Yep it happens.</div><div>A lot.</div><div>The number of stories of people who met while working at camp and committed to long distance relationships until they graduated college would blow your mind. I can name 10 couples right now that have met, married, and are still married today all because they met in the dining hall during staff training.</div><div>For those outside of the camp circle, it is hard to imagine.</div><div>But it’s not uncommon.</div><div>Or odd.</div><div>Or any less romantic or true than the love you have for your partner.</div><div>I know what you're wondering: Did I ever date someone at camp?</div><div>The answer is no.</div><div>I had a personal rule...&quot;Don't Date on the Lake.&quot; I saw a lot of heartbreak at camp. Staff, like Nate, who put their heart on the line only to have it crushed. I preferred to be everyone's big sister because to me, friendship was more important than a broken heart.</div><div>Next week I’m going to talk about why one of my favorite characters is someone you never actually meet!</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Teaser Tuesday--Why People Think Nate is Based on a Real Person</title><description><![CDATA[Last week I introduced you to Charlie, my female main character and today I’m going to introduce you to Nate, the other main character from my upcoming novel MEET ME UNDER THE STARS which is coming out in July!Like last time, I hate putting pictures with characters, but let's be real. Some of these are my favorite inspiration pictures for our guy Nate Walsh…As my friend Amy would say, “I wouldn’t kick him out of my bed for eating crackers.”Who is he?Nate’s an Environmental Biologist from<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_52dc8eb6b33e4c1c9391881ca29a5225%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_470%2Ch_470/28b840_52dc8eb6b33e4c1c9391881ca29a5225%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/21/Teaser-Tuesday--Why-People-Think-Nate-is-Based-on-a-Real-Person</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/21/Teaser-Tuesday--Why-People-Think-Nate-is-Based-on-a-Real-Person</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Mar 2017 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Last week I introduced you to Charlie, my female main character and today I’m going to introduce you to Nate, the other main character from my upcoming novel MEET ME UNDER THE STARS which is coming out in July!</div><div>Like last time, I hate putting pictures with characters, but let's be real. Some of these are my favorite inspiration pictures for our guy Nate Walsh…</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_52dc8eb6b33e4c1c9391881ca29a5225~mv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg"/><div>As my friend Amy would say, “I wouldn’t kick him out of my bed for eating crackers.”</div><div>Who is he?</div><div>Nate’s an Environmental Biologist from Bradford, which is in United Kingdom.</div><div>Yes. He's British. Which means he’s got a swoony accent.</div><div>Due to some family drama, he’s not able to go back to the UK, so he needs a visa to stay in America. Unfortunately, the one he had lined up--was denied--so now he's back to square one and needs a job. Pronto.</div><div>Even though he turned into a player to get over Charlie (and it worked), Nate’s feelings for her came back harder than ever when he saw her at Gwen’s funeral three months ago.</div><div>Speaking of Gwen, she’s not exactly on Nate’s list of favorite people at the moment when her will stipulates he &amp; Charlie need to work together on this scholarship.</div><div>Because. Again. What could possible go wrong when you put two exes together?</div><div>Absolutely everything, that’s what.</div><div>This book is based on a very real life experience of mine: camp friendships.</div><div>When I was in college, my summer job was working at a camp. My favorite summers were on the shores of Lake Hubert outside of Nisswa, Minnesota at a pair of brother/sister camps called Camp Lincoln &amp; Camp Lake Hubert. When I moved back to Minnesota in December 2001, I was fortunate to land a job with those camps in a full time capacity, working year round. (yes...you can work year round for a summer camp!)</div><div>And like Nate and Charlie, I also met some of my closest friends working at camp all of those summers--both in college and working full time. I am fortunate to have friends scattered all over the world.</div><div>Using the idea of a group of friends who met while working at camp who come back together when Gwen dies was a no brainer for me.</div><div>CP’s and beta readers, however, struggled with the idea that you can be such good friends with people you’ve only known for 12 weeks--or crazier yet, fall in love. Believe me. It happens, but that’s a blog topic for next week.</div><div>Naturally, between my friends, the whispers started to bubble when they heard I was writing a book about friendships made at camp. A few read some early drafts. Immediately everyone wanted to know if this person or that person was a particular character.</div><div>Do you really think I’d portray a character on a real life friend?</div><div>I know my friends. They’d want a cut of the royalties! </div><div>The curiosity is natural, of course, because there are similarities. </div><div>Like my friend Chris who is from New Zealand ran the climbing wall and ropes course at camp, but Nate isn’t Chris. Nate is a player, and my friend JH was also a player when he was on staff…but he’s not Nate. And Gwen may have auburn hair and freckles, but she’s not my friend Wendy. And Charlie may do DIY on a TV show, but it’s not my friend Jen who also has a DIY career. </div><div>Coincidence only, I’m afraid.</div><div>Next week I’m going to talk about those romantic camp relationships and how I saw that first hand.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>The Heartbeat Hypothesis is LIVE TODAY!</title><description><![CDATA[You know what I'm doing tonight?NOTHING.Know why?BECAUSE I'M READING THIS BOOK.About the Heartbeat HypothesisAudra Madison simply wanted to walk in the shoes of Emily Cavanaugh, a free-spirited teenager who died too young. After all, Audra wasn’t supposed to be here.Thanks to Emily, Audra has a second chance at life. She’s doing all the things that seemed impossible just two years ago: Go to college. Date. Stargaze in the Rocky Mountains. Maybe get a tattoo. You know, live.Jake Cavanaugh, a<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_5201c78bba5240d79c6a72ed8622ab0f%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_470%2Ch_188/28b840_5201c78bba5240d79c6a72ed8622ab0f%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/20/The-Heartbeat-Hypothesis-is-LIVE-TODAY</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/20/The-Heartbeat-Hypothesis-is-LIVE-TODAY</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2017 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>You know what I'm doing tonight?</div><div>NOTHING.</div><div>Know why?</div><div>BECAUSE I'M READING THIS BOOK.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_5201c78bba5240d79c6a72ed8622ab0f~mv2.jpg"/><div>About the Heartbeat Hypothesis</div><div>Audra Madison simply wanted to walk in the shoes of Emily Cavanaugh, a free-spirited teenager who died too young. After all, Audra wasn’t supposed to be here.</div><div>Thanks to Emily, Audra has a second chance at life. She’s doing all the things that seemed impossible just two years ago: Go to college. Date. Stargaze in the Rocky Mountains. Maybe get a tattoo. You know, live.</div><div>Jake Cavanaugh, a photographer with mysterious, brooding gray eyes, agrees to help chronicle her newfound experiences. She makes him laugh, one of the only people who can these days. As they delve into each other’s pasts – and secrets – the closer they become.</div><div>But she’s guarded and feels like she can’t trust anyone, including herself.</div><div>And he’s struggling with the fact that his beloved sister’s heart beats inside her.</div><div>I shared with you a few weeks ago how I got a sneak read of the early drafts of this story. TWO. YEARS. AGO. </div><div>And it's has stuck with me.</div><div>FOR. TWO. YEARS.</div><div>(TWO YEARS!!!)</div><div>How could it not with lines like this...</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_33c90bfedec34ea781eac101364219a7~mv2.jpg"/><div>Or like this...</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_a2692800c5c34c97bb37fb8bb7ebe29e~mv2.jpg"/><div>Can you understand WHY I'm telling my husband to fend for himself for dinner and in turn I'm crawling into bed with my Kindle, a ginger beer and some cookies? </div><div>Pick it up Here...</div><div><a href="https://amazon.com/dp/B06XBY8Q9N/">AMAZON</a></div><div><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-heartbeat-hypothesis-lindsey-frydman/1125854592?ean=9781633758827">BARNES &amp; NOBLE</a></div><div><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/book/the-heartbeat-hypothesis/id1210119642?mt=11">ITUNES</a></div><div><a href="https://www.kobo.com/us/en/ebook/the-heartbeat-hypothesis">KOBO</a></div><div><a href="https://entangledpublishing.com/the-heartbeat-hypothesis.html">ENTANGLED PUBLISHING</a></div><div>And when you buy it, come find me and let's talk about it because I am confident you're going to have ALLLLLLLL the feels.</div><div>About Lindsey Frydman</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_879bd6f531ab4716bae27cde5c793da4~mv2.jpg"/><div>She's been writing since she was nine years old, when she discovered the awesomeness that is Harriet the Spy. Her books always include a romance, though sometimes there’s an added sci-fi or magical realism twist. She lives in Columbus, Ohio (where the weather is never quite right). Her BFA in Photography and Graphic Design has granted her a wide assortment of creative knowledge that serves as inspiration (and not much else). When she’s not crafting YA and NA stories, you'll likely find her spending waaay too much time on Pinterest, playing a video game, singing show-tunes, or performing in a burlesque show—because she enjoys giving her introversion a worthy adversary. (Plus, it's the closest to Broadway she’ll ever get.) Lindsey was a proud 2016 Pitch Wars Mentee and thoroughly adores being a part of the wonderful writing community. THE HEARTBEAT HYPOTHESIS is her debut novel. </div><div>Where to Find Lindsey</div><div><a href="http://www.lindseyfrydman.com/">Website</a></div><div><a href="https://www.facebook.com/lindseyfrydmanauthor/">Facebook</a></div><div><a href="https://twitter.com/LindseyMF">Twitter</a></div><div><a href="https://www.instagram.com/lindseyfrydman/">Instagram</a></div><div><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/16489099.Lindsey_Frydman">Goodreads</a></div><div><a href="http://www.lindseyfrydman.com/blog">Newsletter</a></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Teaser Tuesday—How Charlie Went from Despised to Adored</title><description><![CDATA[In July, my debut novel, MEET ME UNDER THE STARS will be publishing and I cannot be more excited. As we get closer to my publication date, I wanted to do some “Teaser Tuesday” posts to paint a picture of how my book came to be.Today I’m talking about my female main character, Charlie.Who is she?She’s got a DIY show on television—but the ratings are tanking and she's on the verge of getting fired.She’s just lost her sister to the same hereditary condition that took their mom—which means, she<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_4f99cb44faf943d4ba401a5179acf08f%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_470%2Ch_470/28b840_4f99cb44faf943d4ba401a5179acf08f%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/14/Teaser-Tuesday%E2%80%94How-Charlie-Went-from-Unlikeable-to-Adored</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/14/Teaser-Tuesday%E2%80%94How-Charlie-Went-from-Unlikeable-to-Adored</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Mar 2017 16:57:19 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>In July, my debut novel, MEET ME UNDER THE STARS will be publishing and I cannot be more excited. As we get closer to my publication date, I wanted to do some “Teaser Tuesday” posts to paint a picture of how my book came to be.</div><div>Today I’m talking about my female main character, Charlie.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_4f99cb44faf943d4ba401a5179acf08f~mv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg"/><div>Who is she?</div><div>She’s got a DIY show on television—but the ratings are tanking and she's on the verge of getting fired.</div><div>She’s just lost her sister to the same hereditary condition that took their mom—which means, she could have it, too.</div><div>She’s still in love with the British ex-boyfriend who she ghosted three years ago.</div><div>And now she has to work with him to set up a memorial scholarship in her sister’s memory, thanks to the stipulations outlined in her sister’s will.</div><div>I mean, forcing exes to work together? What could go wrong?</div><div>*snicker* </div><div>EVERYTHING.</div><div>(naturally)</div><div>Charlie wasn’t always like this. Originally in the early, early, EARLY drafts, Charlie was an unhappy mess. What I thought was coming across as a strong woman turned out to be someone who was bitter and spiteful and not well liked AT ALL.</div><div>It’s okay for you not to like a character at the start of the book. The key is that in the end, we turn a corner and cheer on the characters as they grow and change. Unfortunately, that wasn’t happening with the original plot and I needed to make big changes.</div><div>So what was it like to make a huge change to my character? </div><div>Incredibly difficult—especially when every CP and Beta reader said, “eh…” when it came to her likability and her arc, I knew I had no choice. So I had to step away for a bit and reevaluate my character. What did I want her to learn? What did I want readers to experience? And the funny thing is…at first I didn’t even have an answer to those questions myself. </div><div>“I want her to be liked” wasn’t enough.</div><div>I ended up scrapping a lot of what I wrote—which pained me. But in the end, I have a much stronger character who I think, is a ton of fun and better understood. Her occupation has morphed (from teacher...to YouTube personality...to DIY show host) and that alone, had a huge impact on the story--going from someone who might get her own show to someone who has it and is on the verge of losing it.</div><div>Her friendships changed, too. She went from being friends with Gwen (the character who is dead) to being sisters and even hating--downright refusing--to do what Gwen's will instructors her to do.</div><div>The biggest change?</div><div>She went from being friends with Nate--the male main character--to being exes, which turned this romance novel from friends-to-lovers into a 2nd chance at romance.</div><div>Needless to say, the impact was huge and it benefited the story in so many ways. She went from a bitter and unlikable character to someone who was dealing with her demons that you’d root for in the end. </div><div>Next week I’ll tell you all about Nate and bust the myth that he’s based on a real person.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Wild Card Undercover</title><description><![CDATA[Back in July I became part of a debut author group called the 17 Scribes. There are over 100 authors in this group (90% are women!) and today is one of FOUR debut novels taking place. Kari asked if I'd host her debut on my blog and I agreed!About the book:All that glitters in Miami is not gold . . .Lured in by a bad ex-boyfriend and the moonlight of Miami, Meg O’Hara is trapped in a nightmare situation, waiting tables for a crime boss and fearing for her life. When undercover FBI agent<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_c3b92de21255483fb5fdfbfafb237cf9%7Emv2.png/v1/fill/w_288%2Ch_429/28b840_c3b92de21255483fb5fdfbfafb237cf9%7Emv2.png"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/07/Wild-Card-Undercover</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/07/Wild-Card-Undercover</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Mar 2017 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Back in July I became part of a debut author group called the 17 Scribes. There are over 100 authors in this group (90% are women!) and today is one of FOUR debut novels taking place. Kari asked if I'd host her debut on my blog and I agreed!</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_c3b92de21255483fb5fdfbfafb237cf9~mv2.png"/><div>About the book:</div><div>All that glitters in Miami is not gold . . .</div><div>Lured in by a bad ex-boyfriend and the moonlight of Miami, Meg O’Hara is trapped in a nightmare situation, waiting tables for a crime boss and fearing for her life. When undercover FBI agent Christopher Shaunessy offers her a way out, she seizes it. Getting the goods on Salazar Moreno might not be easy, but she’ll do anything to be freed from her servitude and Moreno’s sexual advances, even if it means moving in with the charismatic agent.</div><div>Chris Shaunessy pretends to be Meg’s lover in order to keep her safe, but he steels his heart against further involvement. Passion has no place in the sordid world of organized crime. And yet, the closer they get to cracking the case, the stronger his feelings for the spirited waitress shine. It’s a dangerous game he’s playing, and taking Meg in his arms for real could prove a fatal misstep . . .</div><div>How about a sneak peak?</div><div>“Does that man never have a day off?” Margaret Kathleen O’Hara grumbled, grabbing her tote bag and sarong to move surreptitiously along the chairs by the pool. If the hotel manager saw her here again she’d be toast. He’d more than toss her out. Threats to call the police had been thrown at her for months now. Although in her case, that might be a better deal.</div><div>With her eyes trained on his location and the Miami sun beating down on her exposed skin, Meg backed along the water’s edge attempting to leave the area before he spotted her. She needed to shower the chlorine out of her tangled hair and change for work soon. He looked in her direction and she rushed behind the closest object. It was six-foot-plus of blond-haired gorgeousness. The man’s eyes were glued to something on the upper deck. Her boss was sitting there with one of his expensive bimbos. Did Blondie like that type? Maybe he wouldn’t notice her little game of Hide and Seek.</div><div>She leaned around him, ducking back when she saw the Pool Nazi still present. Getting caught was not an option. She already owed more than she could ever repay.</div><div>“Are you okay?” Forest green eyes stared down at her, puzzled. Would he buy that she was simply looking for shade? He was big enough to provide it.</div><div>With strong hands, he reached for her shoulders and Meg reflexively batted them away. She got enough of people groping her at work. Scorching curses froze before erupting from her mouth as the hotel manager moved, staring in their direction. Her mind kicked into overdrive, scrambling for a way to hide in plain sight.</div><div>“Sorry,” she squeaked. Grabbing the man’s head, she planted her mouth solidly on his. Short, thick strands of hair tickled her fingers. Firm lips yielded no resistance to the increased pressure of her mouth. Better make this look good.</div><div>An electric current skittered over her skin causing her heart to race. Maybe too good? Slowly he pulled her closer with his muscular arms. Her eyes flew open and she broke the connection. His hair-covered chest was too close for comfort. And much too tempting.</div><div>Distance, she needed distance.</div><div>Her eyes darted around, seeing no signs of the manager. A sigh escaped. Time to make her exit as well.</div><div>“Sorry,” she mumbled again, looking up. Big mistake. The stranger’s curious eyes captivated her. They were soft and tender and filled with something she could…trust? If she still had any of that left in her. His hands were gentle as they held her. A tiny smile played about the full lips she’d brazenly kissed. She couldn’t believe she’d done it. Her mother would be appalled. But it had worked.</div><div>The chlorine scent from the pool faded into the background as sweat and suntan lotion wafted off the man’s damp skin. Her stomach did cartwheels followed by a few back flips.</div><div>Dangerous.</div><div>“Let me go,” she hissed as reality returned. She gave a swift shove at his well-defined pectorals, rushing to get past, to escape from this distraction and the possibility of being caught. Her head whipped around at the sound of a splash and water droplets from behind.</div><div>Gorgeous was just breaking the surface of the pool. Had she pushed him that hard?</div><div>“Oops.” No time for apologies. He looked like the forgiving type. She had to blow this joint before the Pool Nazi came back. Grabbing her fallen sarong, she ran across the deck to hustle inside the luxury hotel.</div><div>“Damn.”</div><div>The manager stood sentry near the front door. A crowd appeared at her back making that way impossible. The stairwell to the left would have to do. She’d go up a few floors then down to the side entrance. She wrapped her sarong around her as she carried out her plan to avoid being seen…and caught.</div><div>Meg should stop coming here to use the pool: this proved it. Sneaking in was adding to her already hellish life but swimming always helped work out the stress and the pool here was more accessible than any other on the strip. Pretending she had money to stay in a place like this, rubbing elbows with all the beautiful people, yeah, that got her through too. She’d learned the best times to come and not be seen. Well, for the most part. It was well worth the risk to get away from her dump of a room and its enchanting neighborhood. She’d leave this all behind her soon. She kept telling herself that. Had to believe it for her own sanity.</div><div>Footsteps behind her pushed those thoughts away. Her bare feet padded silently along the lushly carpeted hallway. Heart racing, she ducked into the ice machine alcove, her sigh echoing in the silence. She glanced down. Her bag? She must have dropped it as she rushed off. How had she not realized? It couldn’t have been the threat of being arrested. Or the crooked smile of the handsome stranger she’d kissed. The one with the kind eyes and gentle hands. No, she couldn’t allow herself to be led astray by a pretty face. Not again.</div><div>She continued down the hall, her trip cut short when someone grabbed her by the arm and spun her around. </div><div>Where to buy:</div><div>All buy links can be found here: <a href="http://www.kensingtonbooks.com/book.aspx/34406">http://www.kensingtonbooks.com/book.aspx/34406</a></div><div>Where to find Keri:</div><div>Follow Kari Lemor on her website: <a href="http://www.karilemor.com/">http://www.karilemor.com/</a></div><div>FaceBook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/Karilemorauthor/">https://www.facebook.com/Karilemorauthor/</a></div><div>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/karilemor">https://twitter.com/karilemor</a></div><div>Pinterest: <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/karilemor/">https://www.pinterest.com/karilemor/</a></div><div>Good reads: <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/9756283.Kari_Lemor">https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/9756283.Kari_Lemor</a></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>America's Next Reality Star--and a GIVEAWAY!!</title><description><![CDATA[Last year when I did the Sun vs. Snow contest, I was paired up with a mentor who whipped my query into shape and helped me polish the first 250 words. Little did I know that a year later, that mentor and I would both be debuting our novels in 2017!In addition to Kari's debut, I wanted to give a shout out to Laura for her debut novel as well!America's Next Reality StarSEEKING THE SMART ONETwenty-four-year-old Jen Reid had her life in good shape: an okay job, a tiny-cute Seattle apartment, and a<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_b6e6624accf3435c819ec13188ffa4e9%7Emv2_d_1600_2400_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_288%2Ch_432/28b840_b6e6624accf3435c819ec13188ffa4e9%7Emv2_d_1600_2400_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/07/Americas-Next-Reality-Star--and-a-GIVEAWAY</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/03/07/Americas-Next-Reality-Star--and-a-GIVEAWAY</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Mar 2017 14:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Last year when I did the Sun vs. Snow contest, I was paired up with a mentor who whipped my query into shape and helped me polish the first 250 words. Little did I know that a year later, that mentor and I would both be debuting our novels in 2017!</div><div>In addition to Kari's debut, I wanted to give a shout out to Laura for her debut novel as well!</div><div>America's Next Reality Star</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_b6e6624accf3435c819ec13188ffa4e9~mv2_d_1600_2400_s_2.jpg"/><div>SEEKING THE SMART ONE</div><div>Twenty-four-year-old Jen Reid had her life in good shape: an okay job, a tiny-cute Seattle apartment, and a great boyfriend almost ready to get serious. In a flash it all came apart. Single, unemployed, and holding an eviction notice, who has time to remember trying out for a reality show? Then the call comes, and Jen sees her chance to start over—by spending her summer on national TV.</div><div>Luckily The Fishbowl is all about puzzles and games, the kind of thing Jen would love even if she wasn’t desperate. The cast checks all the boxes: cheerful, quirky Birdie speaks in hashtags; vicious Ariana knows just how to pout for the cameras; and corn-fed “J-dawg” plays the cartoon villain of the house. Then there’s Justin, the green-eyed law student who always seems a breath away from kissing her. Is their attraction real, or a trick to get him closer to the $250,000 grand prize? Romance or showmance, suddenly Jen has a lot more to lose than a summer . . .</div><div>HOW GREAT DOES THAT SOUND?</div><div>Want more?</div><div>Okay!</div><div>Exclusive Sneak Peek</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_10c39fd9fa5b4bac9e9a4e50fae71345~mv2.jpg"/><div>He touched my chin with two fingers, bringing my gaze up to meet his. Damn those green eyes. I searched them for answers, wishing I knew whether he was putting on an act for the audience. Even with the lights off, the cameras stationed in the yard would capture us. The producers filmed everything, day and night. Everyone in America would know if we kissed. For a moment, I struggled to remember why that was bad.</div><div>“I guess it’s not your fault, since I got the question right,” I said begrudgingly, shifting slightly backward.</div><div>“If that is the best I can get, I’ll take it. But I’m going to work on complete forgiveness. I’ll pay you double interest on our bet—six cents.”</div><div>“Well, then,” I laughed. “Maybe I’ll have to reconsider once I get my money. I’d hate to have to send Birdie to break your kneecaps.”</div><div>The image of five-foot-tall Birdie coming after Justin with a baseball bat cracked him up. I laughed, too, crossing my legs and settling more comfortably in the lounger. My knee practically touched Justin’s leg. He didn’t move.</div><div>We sat quietly for a few minutes. I wondered if he heard my heart pounding. Even not wanting to get caught kissing on national television with a near-stranger, I found something about Justin irresistible. Possibly his smile. Or his dimples. His brains. The ease of talking to him. His personality. The fact that he was practically perfect for me in every way.</div><div>That line of thinking wasn’t helping. I needed to change the subject before I started calling him Mary Poppins.</div><div>“It’s a beautiful night.” I gestured at the sky.</div><div>“Yes, it is,” Justin said, his eyes never leaving my face. Did he lean forward slightly? Only inches separated our lips.</div><div>The warmth definitely wasn’t the beer. I licked my lips nervously and leaned in, closing the gap. If he moved the tiniest bit…</div><div>“So—”</div><div>Pick up Your Copy ... </div><div><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Americas-Next-Reality-Laura-Heffernan-ebook/dp/B01HA426MI/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8">Amazon</a></div><div><a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/americas-next-reality-star-laura-heffernan/1124485176?ean=9781516101535">Barnes &amp; Noble</a></div><div><a href="https://www.kobo.com/us/en/ebook/america-s-next-reality-star">Kobo</a></div><div><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/book/americas-next-reality-star/id1128178788?mt=11">iTunes</a></div><div>About the Author</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_7af9bbf9189e46a08c9486ea76ea24cc~mv2.jpg"/><div>Laura Heffernan is living proof that watching too much TV can pay off. When not watching total strangers participate in arranged marriages, drag racing queens, or cooking competitions, Laura enjoys travel, baking, board games, helping with writing contests, and seeking new experiences. She lives in the Northeast with her amazing husband and two furry little beasts.</div><div>You can connect with Laura on her <a href="http://www.lauraheffernan.com/">website</a>, <a href="https://twitter.com/LH_Writes">Twitter</a>, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/lauraheffernanbooks">Facebook</a>, <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/7086797.Laura_Heffernan">Goodreads</a> and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Laura-Heffernan/e/B01HB1LGTY/ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1?qid=1481832021&amp;sr=8-1">Amazon</a>.</div><div>How About a $25 Amazon Giftcard Giveaway?</div><div>One lucky winner will be chosen. Look at all the ways you can get your name in the hat! If you're having trouble accessing the widget below, <a href="http://www.rafflecopter.com/rafl/display/b050ef29334/?">click here for the direct link</a>.</div><iframe src="//0.htmlcomponentservice.com/get_draft?id=cce484_c29a12078571d4683817ebb0eca84169.html"/><div>Promotional materials provided by Barclay Publicity.</div><iframe src="//0.htmlcomponentservice.com/get_draft?id=cce484_65968cf64313585c00a8040942d000ba.html"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Cover Reveal--The Heartbeat Hypothesis</title><description><![CDATA[As an author, the one thing we look forward to...are cover reveals. To see the cover of the baby you've worked so hard on is like opening up a gift at Christmas that you hoped would be under the tree.This is my very first cover reveal and today I get to do it for someone I've gotten to know over the last two years as we've started on our author journey. This is Lindsey Frydman and she has written an incredible story that I know you will absolutely love.Seriously.Be sure to bookmark her website<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_879bd6f531ab4716bae27cde5c793da4%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_288%2Ch_288/28b840_879bd6f531ab4716bae27cde5c793da4%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/02/28/Cover-Reveal--The-Heartbeat-Hypothesis</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/02/28/Cover-Reveal--The-Heartbeat-Hypothesis</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2017 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>As an author, the one thing we look forward to...are cover reveals. To see the cover of the baby you've worked so hard on is like opening up a gift at Christmas that you hoped would be under the tree.</div><div>This is my very first cover reveal and today I get to do it for someone I've gotten to know over the last two years as we've started on our author journey. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_879bd6f531ab4716bae27cde5c793da4~mv2.jpg"/><div>This is Lindsey Frydman and she has written an incredible story that I know you will absolutely love.</div><div>Seriously.</div><div>Be sure to bookmark her <a href="http://www.lindseyfrydman.com">website</a> and then hop on over to <a href="https://www.facebook.com/lindseyfrydmanauthor/">Facebook</a>, <a href="https://twitter.com/LindseyMF">Twitter</a>, and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lindseyfrydman/">Instagram</a> and be sure to sign up for her <a href="http://www.lindseyfrydman.com/blog">newsletter</a>, too, because this is only the beginning for her. </div><div>Mark my words. She's going places.</div><div>And while you're at it, be sure to run over to <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/34382818-the-heartbeat-hypothesis">Goodreads</a> and put this baby on your TBR list. </div><div>I'm gonna let you in on a little secret: I got to read an early, early draft two years ago and I still think about this book.</div><div>Yes. I do.</div><div>And I'd also like to go on record that she made me cry. Her response: I've achieved one of my goals to make someone cry with my writing! </div><div>That shouldn't be surprising. I mean, Lindsey has been writing since she was nine years old, when she discovered the awesomeness that is Harriet the Spy. Her books always include a romance, though sometimes there’s an added sci-fi or magical realism twist.</div><div>She lives in Columbus, Ohio (where the weather is never quite right). Her BFA in Photography and Graphic Design has granted her a wide assortment of creative knowledge that serves as inspiration (and not much else). When she’s not crafting YA and NA stories, you'll likely find her spending waaay too much time on Pinterest, playing a video game, singing show-tunes, or performing in a burlesque show—because she enjoys giving her introversion a worthy adversary. (Plus, it's the closest to Broadway she’ll ever get.)</div><div>Lindsey was a proud 2016 Pitch Wars Mentee and thoroughly adores being a part of the wonderful writing community. THE HEARTBEAT HYPOTHESIS is her debut novel and it's one I know you will love. </div><div>Don't believe me? Check out this blurb....</div><div>The Heartbeat Hypothesis</div><div>Audra Madison simply wanted to walk in the shoes of Emily Cavanaugh, a free-spirited teenager who died too young. After all, Audra wasn’t supposed to be here.</div><div>Thanks to Emily, Audra has a second chance at life. She’s doing all the things that seemed impossible just two years ago: Go to college. Date. Stargaze in the Rocky Mountains. Maybe get a tattoo. You know, live.</div><div>Jake Cavanaugh, a photographer with mysterious, brooding gray eyes, agrees to help chronicle her newfound experiences. She makes him laugh, one of the only people who can these days. As they delve into each other’s pasts – and secrets – the closer they become.</div><div>But she’s guarded and feels like she can’t trust anyone, including herself.</div><div>And he’s struggling with the fact that his beloved sister’s heart beats inside her.</div><div>Seriously?</div><div>Are you swooning yet?</div><div>*insert heart eye emoji here* </div><div>You can get your hands on it Starting March 20th. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XBY8Q9N/">Click here to preorder it on Amazon</a>.</div><div>And without further adooooooo.....</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_6b86756d8ff5494f8cee5d2a4dd8985e~mv2.jpg"/><div>And one more thing...</div><div>If you want to be the first to get some sneak peeks into this fantastic novel, be sure to sign up for her <a href="http://www.lindseyfrydman.com/blog">newsletter</a> . I promise, you won't be sorry!</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Character Inspiration</title><description><![CDATA[Instagram is such a great social media app. One of the things I really love are the monthly prompts and hashtags people create to build up the writer community. I'm participating in Author Life Month and I loved today's prompt: character inspiration. It's not unusual for people to post celebrity photos of who they picture for their characters. Mine have gone back and forth over the years. But here is who I currently picture for Nate and Charlie.I also snuck in one of my favorite lines from my<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_947d491ae2d64f4495f988d20385bcee%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_470%2Ch_470/28b840_947d491ae2d64f4495f988d20385bcee%7Emv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/02/12/Character-Inspiration</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2017/02/12/Character-Inspiration</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 Feb 2017 20:37:36 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Instagram is such a great social media app. One of the things I really love are the monthly prompts and hashtags people create to build up the writer community. </div><div>I'm participating in Author Life Month and I loved today's prompt: character inspiration. It's not unusual for people to post celebrity photos of who they picture for their characters. Mine have gone back and forth over the years. But here is who I currently picture for Nate and Charlie.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_947d491ae2d64f4495f988d20385bcee~mv2_d_2048_2048_s_2.jpg"/><div>I also snuck in one of my favorite lines from my book. Here's what it says if you can't read it:</div><div>He's my kryptonite.</div><div>Shove a photo of Nate Walsh in front of my face</div><div>and I'll snap like a freakin' cracker.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Let's Have a Giveaway, Shall We?</title><description><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you're exhausted from this election season?Yep.Me, too.So, on my author Facebook account (are we friends there? Come on by and friend request me...I'm a lot of fun, I promise), I noted that this weekend I'm going up to Grand Forks, North Dakota.I know.Quite the hot spot of the midwest, huh? My undergraduate is located there and I'm going up to watch hockey this weekend. We've had the game planned for months when single game tickets went on sale. Getting tickets to a North<img src="http://media3.giphy.com/media/xT9KVwVraalcvmKBfW/giphy.gif"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/11/10/Lets-Have-a-Giveaway-Shall-We</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/11/10/Lets-Have-a-Giveaway-Shall-We</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 15:28:33 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Raise your hand if you're exhausted from this election season?</div><img src="http://media3.giphy.com/media/xT9KVwVraalcvmKBfW/giphy.gif"/><div>Yep.</div><div>Me, too.</div><div>So, on my author Facebook account (are we friends there? <a href="https://www.facebook.com/kdpwrites">Come on by and friend request me</a>...I'm a lot of fun, I promise), I noted that this weekend I'm going up to Grand Forks, North Dakota.</div><div>I know.</div><div>Quite the hot spot of the midwest, huh? </div><div>My undergraduate is located there and I'm going up to watch hockey this weekend. We've had the game planned for months when single game tickets went on sale. Getting tickets to a North Dakota hockey game isn't easy, and typically they're up in the rafters. </div><div>But we got awesome seats and that small victory of getting good seats--having a little retail therapy to drive away the election nonsense--made me realize I could share and pass on that joy to others.</div><div>So, I'm giving away four (4) $15 Amazon gift cards. </div><div>It's not much...but you can get a couple of books for $15.</div><div>Or if you aren't an e-reader kind of person, and want an actual paper book, you can get one or two for that price as well!</div><div>I've set up a Rafflecopter entry below. Setting up an account is quick and easy (and you don't even need Facebook to do it). Couple of things to point out:</div><div>You have until Monday, November 14th at midnight (eastern) to enter.I'll pick a winner Tuesday, November 15th.Open internationally and gift cards will be electronic through e-mail One of the entries is to sign up for my newsletter--you can do that on my home page (click &quot;home&quot; and you'll see it at the bottom of the page). </div><div>In the words of my friend Wendy...on we go. </div><iframe src="//0.htmlcomponentservice.com/get_draft?id=cce484_06ad6c031e4022a38505cf24b2d6163e.html"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Teasers (or as I'm calling it:  Who Would Ever Use that Photo?)...</title><description><![CDATA[Hiya, blog peeps.Or possibly just my mother is reading this. *waves*Since being submersed in all things authorish--here's what I've discovered. Teasers are BIG. Huge. I know more about teasers than...than...well, I know a lot about them.(name that presidential candidate....ha!)But these are fun little snippets of your book, highlighting a sweet, sassy, or sexy line to pull people in. You have to choose the line carefully so that people aren't left wondering who or what you're talking about. With<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_3ca3a08f800b49cdad4837b501fc63c1%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_523%2Ch_360/28b840_3ca3a08f800b49cdad4837b501fc63c1%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/08/25/Teasers-or-as-Im-calling-it-Who-Would-Ever-Use-that-Photo</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/08/25/Teasers-or-as-Im-calling-it-Who-Would-Ever-Use-that-Photo</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Aug 2016 00:50:24 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Hiya, blog peeps.</div><div>Or possibly just my mother is reading this. *waves*</div><div>Since being submersed in all things authorish--here's what I've discovered. Teasers are BIG. Huge. I know more about teasers than...than...well, I know a lot about them.</div><div>(name that presidential candidate....ha!)</div><div>But these are fun little snippets of your book, highlighting a sweet, sassy, or sexy line to pull people in. You have to choose the line carefully so that people aren't left wondering who or what you're talking about. </div><div>With romance novels, usually the line is flirty and sexy and borderline NSFW (Not Safe For Work). I, however, don't have a lot of lines like that. Yes, I have some. But I'm still trying to get over the fact that people I work with are going to be reading this thing and when they see me in a meeting they'll be like, &quot;I know what YOU wrote.&quot; </div><div>*shrug*</div><div>I've been digging through iStock photos. These are photos that cost you about $10-$12 per picture to download--but you've purchased the rights to use them in mass marketing of your product. </div><div>Word to the wise: Yeah. Google Image Search is not okay in this instance. You need to buy the photos, peeps.</div><div>But let me tell you. I've found some HUM DINGERS. </div><div>Oh.</div><div>Yes.</div><div>I.</div><div>Have.</div><div>EXAMPLE 1: Why in the world is she wearing a veil on a stocking cap? Yes. A stocking cap...like you'd wear in the middle of winter...</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_3ca3a08f800b49cdad4837b501fc63c1~mv2.jpg"/><div>EXAMPLE 2: I think I have a senior photo floating around where I'm sitting in that exact circle cut out thing....I mean...why? </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_cdf1b57fb2974fc8b0d2869ce0454ab1~mv2.jpg"/><div>EXAMPLE 3: Playboy bunny, maybe? I don't even want to know...</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_ce9d4bea88fc4ce09e0d7081eb02d223~mv2.jpg"/><div>EXAMPLE 4: Because everyone has a Christmas tree right smack dab in the middle of their BED. Right.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_1adec4af6fa442c491e7401642795fee~mv2.jpg"/><div><div>EXAMPLE 5: This CRACKED. ME. UP. I get it. She's excited for her wedding night. But come on. </div>And I'm sorry...but she looks like she's going to short the landing on this. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_5167d9c6d28448f6bca9d13dc3ecc04b~mv2.jpg"/><div>EXAMPLE 6: Yeah. This has to be some weird sci-fi kind of thing. I'm not sure what to make of this to be honest (other than it's creepy as hell...)</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_be02b4f77b984f04895e0064484afde8~mv2.jpg"/><div>EXAMPLE 7: This has to be my favorite. I have no clue why this guy is naked and scrutinizing a slice of watermelon. No idea. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_f11558b79f2c4931a54b60c1f6a8ee27~mv2.jpg"/><div>Well. There you have it. Some of the hilarious stock photos I've found online. Thankfully I have found some awesome pictures to use for my teasers...none of which are even close to these. </div><div>How about you? Ever find some crazy stock photos that make you shake your head? If so, hit me up on <a href="http://www.twitter.com/kdpwrites">Twitter</a>. I'd love to see what you've found!</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Self Doubt Squashed by a Writing Contest...</title><description><![CDATA[First off. Can we please talk about the fact that tomorrow is JUNE 1st. JUNE. Spring and summer fly by wwaaaaayyyyy too quickly for my liking if I'm honest. Source: Google Images Moving on... Right now I'm editing my book. Edits are due first week of July and we're not talking little edits, either. Like plot hole fixing, a little plot shifting, a little bit of a character change type of editing. This is normal...and I knew it would happen. But it can be a bit of a kick in the pants and you<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_2a1b0790192447ee989ca0ed83b43b6c%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_460%2Ch_462/28b840_2a1b0790192447ee989ca0ed83b43b6c%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/05/31/Self-Doubt-Squashed-by-a-Writing-Contest-1</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/05/31/Self-Doubt-Squashed-by-a-Writing-Contest-1</guid><pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2016 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>First off. Can we please talk about the fact that tomorrow is JUNE 1st.</div><div>JUNE.</div><div>Spring and summer fly by wwaaaaayyyyy too quickly for my liking if I'm honest. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_2a1b0790192447ee989ca0ed83b43b6c~mv2.jpg"/><div>Source: Google Images </div><div>Moving on...</div><div>Right now I'm editing my book. Edits are due first week of July and we're not talking little edits, either. Like plot hole fixing, a little plot shifting, a little bit of a character change type of editing. This is normal...and I knew it would happen. But it can be a bit of a kick in the pants and you wonder if it's all worth it.</div><div>I've been on one hell of an emotional roller coaster</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_df9cbcd4524348b2813bd4c9944ebf85~mv2.jpg"/><div>&quot;Oh my God, why did they pick my manuscript if it's this bad?&quot;</div><div>&quot;But I really like that chapter...I don't want to cut it...&quot;</div><div>&quot;If I do this, I'll have to change this and people really liked that part.&quot;</div><div>&quot;Ohhh...I like where this is going...&quot;</div><div>&quot;Yeah. This is complete shit. No one is going to buy this.&quot;</div><div>Self doubt is so much fun.</div><iframe src="http://static.usrfiles.com/html/cce484_1bbb57891691f22b8f209a592b57d453.html"/><div>Until my friend Tracy kicked me in the butt with this bit of advice through e-mail.</div><div>&quot;Of course you doubt yourself. Anyone good at their art does. Cut it out.&quot;</div><div>My editors and the folks at BookFish books have been awesome. They're pushing me out of my comfort zone and I know it's going to be great.</div><div>But the self doubt? I just have to own that it's normal.</div><div>But then this happened:</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_8e85817f476e419ba6d82774dd22746a~mv2.jpg"/><div>Ummmm. SAY WHAT?!?</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_9ae9976564ed4588a84fe921b294e44d.gif"/><div>The Young Adult Chapter of the Romance Writers of America (YARWA) has an annual contest called the Rosemary Award for authors, regardless of publishing status, are welcome to enter. They had a category for New Adult and a writer friend encouraged me to apply.</div><div>So I did.</div><div>Back in MARCH.</div><div>Needless to say it was outta sight, outta mind and I totally forgot about it until I got the e-mail this weekend announcing I was a finalist. When I saw the list of the other finalists, I knew of them through Twitter and I cannot even begin to tell you how humbling it is to not only be a finalist, but to be a finalist with these incredible women. </div><div>Being announced as a finalist was seriously the boost I needed. Reading the judges feedback was awesome and encouraging and one of them said, &quot;I don't know who this is but I want to!&quot; They all said my story started in the right spot, the pacing was excellent, the writing was great, they loved it and it couldn't have come at a better time.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_d25a8c078f1d4c44afcb1bf09bcb6232~mv2.png"/><div>So, here's to my fellow finalists!</div><div>And thank you to the Young Adult RWA for not only hosting the contest, but having a New Adult category. </div><div>On we go!</div><div>(fingers crossed)</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>From Brainstorm to Bookshelf:  When you Overlook What is Right in Front of your Face...</title><description><![CDATA[First off....how freaking awesome is this sunrise photo? The shores of Lake Hubert, Minnesota produces a special kind of magic for those of us who know it as the home of Camp Lincoln & Camp Lake Hubert. Yep.This is taken from the camp director's dock. There are days where I wish I still worked at camp in the summer because I could wake up to this every. single. day. During my summers at camp I spent my days coated from head to toe in Deep Woods Off and very little sunscreen (we won't talk about<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_74918e7bd6b541d592f00eb9c110ec23.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/05/16/From-Brainstorm-to-Bookshelf-Describing-Camp-to-Those-whove-Never-been-to-a-Summer-Camp-Before</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/05/16/From-Brainstorm-to-Bookshelf-Describing-Camp-to-Those-whove-Never-been-to-a-Summer-Camp-Before</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 May 2016 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>First off....how freaking awesome is this sunrise photo?</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_74918e7bd6b541d592f00eb9c110ec23.jpg"/><div>The shores of Lake Hubert, Minnesota produces a special kind of magic for those of us who know it as the home of <a href="http://www.lincoln-lakehubert.com">Camp Lincoln &amp; Camp Lake Hubert.</a></div><div>Yep.</div><div>This is taken from the camp director's dock. </div><div>There are days where I wish I still worked at camp in the summer because I could wake up to this every. single. day. </div><div>During my summers at camp I spent my days coated from head to toe in Deep Woods Off and very little sunscreen (we won't talk about that horrific sunburn I got one summer. OUCH). Camp taught me how to start a fire with just one match. I can find my way back to my cabin in the dark without hitting that giant rock at the fork in the road. And I don't care what you say but camp has the best yogurt and granola for breakfast, the best ranch salad dressing on the salad bar, and the best birthday cake around. </div><div>For a short stint I worked at camp full time. </div><div>And while I love my career in higher education--this was just as amazing.</div><div>When I started to draft <div>If You're Ever in Town, </div>I wanted it to be about friendships that began at camp and never wavered--even after all these years. Originally, the plot began with Nate and Charlie going around the world to visit camp friends and spread Gwen's ashes. </div><div>But feedback about that plot was lukewarm. </div><div>And that's when it hit me. </div><div>Why are they going around the world when they should be going right back to where it all started. Right back to camp.</div><div>Write what you know, right?</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_de290d3811aa47c2adeed8cfbbaf44bf.jpg"/><div>I've got my work cut out for me because while a lot of the work is already done, there are some heavy rewrites taking place. Locations will be changed, events will be tweaked, but the best part? I get to describe camp to everyone.</div><div>My friend JoJo wrote this incredible poem quite a few years ago called What I am at Camp. I've taken it and changed some of the wording to fit this post a little better. But reading this before diving into the big edits has helped me refocus a bit on making sure that part of the story--while small--is strong. </div><div>Curious aren't you?</div><div>Well.</div><div>Here we go...</div><div>All photos are mine unless otherwise noted</div><div>Camp. </div><div>It's the long dirt paths that lead from cabin to cabin</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_d2131865c1f144d1861f306a4bc5c886.jpg"/><div>From candle wax and colored beads</div><div>The big green chairs that enfold you and you stick to them from the sap of the overlooking trees, the lake that glistened and danced when the sun kicked the clouds out of the sky and that could roar and charge when the winds howled</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_33db1f48527645dd8eecd6d2640bf8b9.jpg"/><div>It'a a place of slamming doors and dirty feet</div><div>From where the sounds of the halyards hitting the masts is mesmerizing.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_a783657968cb4cb4a47b3ddafca34825.jpg"/><div>Where you are never alone</div><div>Where hands pounding on tables could always find a beat—a beat that would grab everyone’s hands to make them join in too.</div><div>The quiet mornings that would greet me with only the chirp from the birds and the call from a loon, a place that would be awake by 7:30 and asleep by 9, yet secretly alive with hushed whispers and muffled giggles</div><div>The dock—hard wood, is probably the most comfortable bed you'll ever find.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_f969b20596a6490caac95f28018c360a.jpg"/><div>From the boats which let me float across the water, from the canoes that let me glide and the horses that let me fly</div><div>It's the children that let me rediscover laughter and joy</div><div>From the place that gives me hope and confidence</div><div>From tree swings and fish sticks</div><div>From sundae cones and bug juice</div><div>From where my pitcher is always full</div><div>It's a place with smoldering hot days and nights so cold that they mosquitoes don’t buzz</div><div>From constant laughter so much my belly hurt</div><div>From tears both happy and sad and hugs that would never fail to dry them</div><div>I am from the rising smoke and glowing embers</div><div>From the chocolate and marshmallows smeared on my face</div><div>Where little hands finding mine in the dark guided with the help from the jumping flames light and faces beautiful in the campfire’s glow</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_05ac4fbc3ceb437a94d5c60826e2356e.jpg"/><div> Photo credit: Camp Lincoln &amp; Camp Lake Hubert</div><div>From piggybacks and skipping down trails</div><div>From found energy when I was convinced that I had none left</div><div>I am from the chapel where there was no Bible, but where I have never felt closer to God</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_7ab06629497a404cba21eefe5ce39f4c.jpg"/><div> Photo credit: Camp Lincoln &amp; Camp Lake Hubert</div><div>A place where the trees rustling so loudly it seemed like they were sharing secrets, the neighing horses, the hum of the zip line and the smell of the infirmary are always in our memory</div><div>Where the rain on the roof makes a song, and where a simple song can make the sound of rain and where a song has the magical ability to bring out the sun</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_626eb8bef079469f926aa8a2603d14a7.jpg"/><div>Photo credits: Camp Lincoln &amp; Camp Lake Hubert</div><div>It's a place where as a child I learned who I was and who I wanted to be</div><div>From where as a grown-up I remembered how to be me</div><div>From where I learn the most valuable lessons and where the people I love most are</div><div>I am from forever friendships</div><div>A place that even when I am no longer there, I know that my heart will always be</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_cf4c250a62e644bdb90abc85ca725acc.jpg"/><div>And that, friends, is camp.</div><div>A place that has it's own smell. It's own vibe. A soundtrack of rad sounds. And when you put that all together--it's magical.</div><div>I've said that this process is pushing me out of my comfort zone....and you can't find the magic in your comfort zone. So here's hoping I not only continue to find the magic, but I do the magic of camp justice and create it for all of you. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_8dbded1e419b477a9b210ec09255d58d.gif"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>My Stab at the Facebook Bucket List</title><description><![CDATA[Have you seen this going around Facebook lately? A list of random items and you have to check off what you've done. I would NOT call this a bucket list. A bucket list are things you want to do. This is more of a "life inventory" of sorts. Kind of reminds me of those e-mail chains that went around 15 years ago with things like, "Ranch or Honey Mustard?" "Leave a message or just hang up?" Anyway, I thought I'd take a stab at it here on the ol' blog. And because I can't ever just put an "x", I'll<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_3c2bc315b9fd45cc96344ac2f3007aa2.gif"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/25/My-Stab-at-the-Facebook-Bucket-List</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/25/My-Stab-at-the-Facebook-Bucket-List</guid><pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2016 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_3c2bc315b9fd45cc96344ac2f3007aa2.gif"/><div>Have you seen this going around Facebook lately? A list of random items and you have to check off what you've done. I would NOT call this a bucket list. A bucket list are things you want to do. This is more of a &quot;life inventory&quot; of sorts. Kind of reminds me of those e-mail chains that went around 15 years ago with things like, &quot;Ranch or Honey Mustard?&quot; &quot;Leave a message or just hang up?&quot; </div><div>Anyway, I thought I'd take a stab at it here on the ol' blog.</div><div>And because I can't ever just put an &quot;x&quot;, I'll give some background to my answers too.</div><div>Take that Facebook viral nonsense. </div><div><div>Fired a Gun--YES. My friend Wendy taught me at summer camp! </div><div>Gone on a blind date--YES. Let's not talk about that, shall we?</div><div>Set someone up on a blind date--YES. In college I was the Queen of set ups. Some good. Some terrible. I apologize to those who had bad experiences</div><div>Tried online dating--YES. That's how I met my husband!</div><div>Skipped school--YES--College only. Never in high school. Too much of a rule follower (still am)</div><div>Missed a high school reunion--YES. I won't tell you which ones because I AM OLD.</div><div>Attended a high school reunion--YES. I was on the planning committee for the last two.</div><div>Watched someone give birth--NO. OH. HELL. NO.</div><div>Watched someone die--NO. Thank goodness.</div><div>Witnessed a stroke--NO. Geez, these last two questions were sort of a downer. Who made this list?</div><div>Witnessed an embolism--NO. What the hell? Now, for sake of argument, I don't know how you'd actually witness an embolism? It's (usually) a blood clot. How do you witness that happening? </div><div>Participated in a protest--YES! In 8th grade we protested having spring break taken away. I not only got the annual trip to Valleyfair taken away as punishment, but a lot of the kids who protested didn't have to participate in that punishment. TOTALLY UNFAIR. (I'm not bitter or anything)</div><div>Lost a parent--NO. But it's been a close call a time or two.</div><div>Performed the Heimlich maneuver on a choking person--NO. But I'm glad I know how!</div><div>Performed the Heimlich maneuver on a choking pet--NO and I had no idea you could! Look what I learned today!</div><div>Threw up on a plane--NO, but I've been near those who have. *shudder*</div><div>Sang at a wedding--NO to singing, but I did play in a string quartet when a high school friend got married. I BEGGED her not to have me play in the wedding. She wouldn't budge. I SUCK at playing the viola. It's a crazy long story that I'll share one day but let me just say every time I see this friend I *still* want to apologize for how horrible I must have sounded. </div><div>Sang at a funeral--MAYBE? Do the hymns the congregation sing count? </div><div>Visited Canada--YES! I went to school an hour from the Canadian border. And one of my college roommates was Canadian. OF COURSE I'VE BEEN! </div><div>Visited Hawaii--YES. With an ex. (no comment)</div><div>Visited Europe--YES. In high school and again as an adult. And I'd go back in a heartbeat!</div><div>Visited Las Vegas--YES. True story...we almost got married in Las Vegas. </div><div>Visited Seattle--YES! Great city!</div><div>Visited Chicago--YES. Was just there last week!</div><div>Visited Asia--NO. Not sure I want to go, either.</div><div>Visited Africa--NO, but I'd consider it. I've heard the immunizations are a bitch, though.</div><div>Visited Florida--YES. Kennedy Space Center is a MUST SEE. Worth every penny. Disney? Not so much. Sorry, Disney fans. </div><div>Visited Mexico--NO. And I have no intention of going, either.</div><div>Visited Germany--NO and I don't know if it's a place I'd like to go? </div><div>Visited Spain--NO and it's sort of in that same bucket as Germany...not sure I'd want to?</div><div>Visited Australia--NO BUT!!! We are planning a trip there. Probably winter 2017!! For all the times my camp friends camped on my couch and said, &quot;If you're ever in town you have a place to stay&quot; this is payback. </div><div>Swam in the Pacific Ocean--YES!</div><div>Swam in the Atlantic Ocean--YES!</div><div>Swam in the Gulf of Mexico--YES! And saw a high school classmate get stung by a jellyfish!</div><div>Swam in the Caribbean--No</div><div>Swam in the Mediterranean--No</div><div>Seen the Grand Canyon in person--KINDA. From an airplane, yes. But standing on the edge of it? No. In fact, in college I was in Arizona for a conference and the day after the conference ended there was a trip to the Grand Canyon. I ducked out of the trip to spend the day with a childhood friend. And if I could turn back the clock and do that day over? I'd pick my friend over the Grand Canyon. </div><div>Seen Niagara Falls in person--YES! Did all the touristy stuff from the Cave of the Winds to the Maid of the Mist boat ride right into the falls. SO AMAZING!</div><div>Seen Lake Superior in person--YES. I live in Minnesota. Sorta part of the package deal, you know?</div><div>Flown in a helicopter--No. And for graduating from a school with one of the best aviation schools in the country, how did this not happen? Small airplanes I've flown in all the time with my friends, but not a helicopter.</div></div><div>INTERMISSION: Holy crap this list is giant! Who in the hell has time to make up these questions? Let alone answer them.</div><div>Oh. Wait.</div><div>Alright...moving on....</div><div><div>Served on a jury--NO, but I have gotten called up for jury duty--just not picked. </div><div>Served in the military--NO. But here is a fun facts: My 7x's great grandfather served in the Revolutionary War, and my 5x's great grandfather served in the Civil War--including trying to rescue his brother who was taken prisoner. How's that for some great family military history? Also, my parents met in the Army and then I came along. I don't claim to be an Army brat, but I was born on an Army base.</div><div>Visited L.A.--NO. I've been California, but San Francisco and up north near Sacramento. </div><div>Been to New York City--YES. Walked around the city in the pouring rain. Also tried to go up into the World Trade Center, but it was too foggy.</div><div>Cried yourself to sleep--YES. </div><div>Recently colored with pencils--YES. Adult coloring books are awesome. </div><div>Sang karaoke--YES. And you haven't sung karaoke unless you've done it with a live band at <a href="http://www.glueks.com/">Gluek's Bar</a> in Minneapolis. Shout out to my friend Jake who tried to sing Jesse's Girl and only knew the chorus. But he belted the hell out of that chorus! </div><div>Paid for a meal with coins only--YES. Hasn't every college student done this at least once?</div><div>Made prank phone calls--YES. I am the Queen of practical jokes. </div><div>Laughed so much you cried--YES. And if you haven't you aren't human.</div><div>Caught Snowflake's on tongue--YES. This suddenly feels like I'm filling out a character inventory for plotting a book. </div><div>Danced in the rain--YES. See question above.</div><div>Had children--NO. </div><div>Had a pet--YES. </div><div>Been skinny dipping--NO. Seriously I haven't. </div><div>Abseiled down a building/cliff--YES! I had to look up &quot;abseiled&quot; and it's repelling and I've done that! It is freakin' awesome!!</div><div>Been downhill skiing--YES and it was the worst experience ever.</div><div>Been water skiing--NO because see question above. </div><div>Been camping in a tent--YES. I worked at a summer camp. I can put together a tent in record time. </div><div>Driven a motorcycle--NO. </div><div>Jumped out of a plane--NO.</div><div>Gone to a drive-in movie--YES! Such a bummer that you can't really find a drive in anymore. </div><div>Done something that could have killed you--YES. More times than I can count.</div><div>Done something that you will regret for the rest of your life--YES and we won't put it here. Nor will I share it if you ask me. </div><div>Rode an elephant--NO. </div><div>Rode a camel--NO</div><div>Eaten just cookies, cake or ice cream for dinner. YES and I would do it again.</div><div>Been on TV--YES! If you're a good super sleuth you can find me on Netflix. (True story!)</div><div>Been in newspapers--YES. See &quot;protested something&quot; question above. (plus many others)</div><div>Stolen any traffic signs--NO. But my dad did. And that's how he ended up in the Army. It was either enlist or go to jail. Also, the day he left for Basic Training, he had a photo taken with the little old ladies from the USO who gave him and the other recruits a box of essentials (like razors and cigarettes and stuff)...he had his hands in his pockets and flipped off the camera man. They had to airbrush it out. Needless to say, the Army did the trick and straightened him out. ha!</div><div>Been in a car accident--YES. </div><div>Stayed in Hospital--NO </div><div>Donated blood--YES, but I can't anymore because after 9-11 when everyone and their brother donated blood, they tested so many samples that they cross contaminated and sent me a letter telling me I didn't test positive, but I didn't test negative for hepatitis. As a result, I'm on the &quot;black list&quot; for blood donation and regardless of what I've done I can't get off it. So...</div><div>Payed a fine in the past 12 months--NO</div><div>Been arrested--TECHNICALLY, NO. But. I was detained when I was in college for underage drinking. I was cited with a Minor in Possession, had to go to court, and thankfully because of unlawful search practices, it was thrown out. </div><div>Lost control of a vehicle--YES during drivers ed! ha!</div><div>Gotten a piercing--YES (ears only)</div><div>Gotten a Tattoo--YES. I have two. </div><div>Driven a standard car--YES! I learned on a crappy old VW beetle. </div><div>Ever owned your dream car--NO. I don't even have a dream car.</div><div>Been Married--YES! </div><div>Been divorced--NO, nor do I intend to be.</div><div>Fell in love--YES.</div><div>Paid for a strangers meal--YES! I do this pretty regularly, actually.</div><div>Driven over 100mph--NO...not that I can recall anyway? I have a lead foot but I don't think I've ever gone THAT fast. </div><div>Changed a tire on the side of a highway--No, not me personally. But we did get a flat tire this summer when we were in Montana on the side of a very narrow, rugged mountain road. Now THAT is a story! </div><div>Worked in a pub--NO. </div><div>Been scuba diving--NO but I have friends who do and it looks AWESOME.</div><div>Found a dead body--NO! And I hope to hell I never do!</div><div>Lived on your own--YES and I recommend it highly to anyone who can afford to do so. </div><div>Swam with the Dolphins--NO but I want to so badly!! THIS is a true bucket list item...</div><div>Parasailing--NO and after watching some Dateline/investigation story on it, I don't know if I will. </div><div>Snorkeling--YES! I actually learned how to do that in high school gym class (it's true!)</div><div>Flown over Volcanoes--YES and I've actually been seen them up close in Hawaii</div><div>Flown in a plane that took-off and landed on water--NO.</div><div>Visited Alaska--NO, though my husband's aunt and uncle live there.</div><div>Visited the Bahamas--NO and I don't know if I want to?</div><div>Visited Mount Rushmore--YES! Oh my God...you have to do this if you haven't already. So awesome.</div><div>Visited Yellowstone--NO </div><div>Visited the summit of Pike's Peak--NO (goes to Google to look up Pikes Peak to confirm. Nope, I haven't....)</div><div>Visited the top of the World Trade Center Pre 9/11--NO, but almost (see Visited New York above)</div><div>Visited the Statue of Liberty--NO. Too rainy when we were there.</div><div>Visited Washington DC--YES and to be honest? Not what I thought it would be. Just...meh. </div><div>Seen Prince perform live--NO AND I WISH I HAD. *sigh* That man was incredible and he'll be missed.</div><div>Seen Bob Dylan perform live--NO, and no offense to him, but...ummm...no. </div><div>Seen Garth Brooks perform live--NO and I wish I had! Garth is awesome!</div><div>Seen Bruce Springsteen perform live--NO. </div><div>Seen Dave Matthews Band perform live--NO. Okay. Seriously? Where are the bands I like? I got the short end of the stick on this one. </div><div>Seen Paul Simon perform live--NO, but my husband has!</div><div>Seen Phish perform live--I'm sorry...but...WHO?</div><div>Been to the Metrodome--YES! </div></div><div>Sidenote: Someone from Minnesota must have made up this list with the references to Prince, Dylan and the Metrodome. Which makes sense as to why I'm seeing this all over my Facebook feed. ha!</div><div>Okay. On we go...</div><div><div>Seen an NFL game in person--YES. In the Metrodome! ha! (and in Detroit. Was one of a few Vikings fans in the stands. I do not advise doing this. I was just a bit scared. And by a bit I mean A LOT.)</div><div>Seen a MLB game in person--YES. In the Metrodome--go figure. </div><div>Seen an NBA game in person--YES. No. Not in the Metrodome. At Target Center.</div><div>Met a celebrity--YES! I've got pictures with Diane Keaton to prove it!</div><div>Been to Disney World--YES. *shrug*</div><div>Been to Disney Land--NO...and I'm okay with that.</div><div>Seen a Lunar eclipse--YES</div><div>Seen a Solar eclipse--YES</div><div>Seen a meteor shower--YES. So amazing.</div><div>Seen the Northern Lights--YES! But I'd LOVE to go back to Iceland and see them there. I've seen some pretty awesome displays up at camp, but Iceland is where it's at.</div><div>Ridden a bull--NO and NO THANK YOU.</div><div>Heard a sonic boom--YES.</div><div>Seen a funnel cloud--YES! I live right on the edge of tornado alley...of course I have.</div><div>Seen a tornado--YES. While at camp. </div><div>Been in an earthquake--YES. Not a big one, but enough to rattle the dishes and that was enough for me!</div><div>Witnessed a tsunami in person--NO....THANK GOD!</div><div>Shot an animal--NO and I don't know if I could.</div><div>Caught a fish--YES</div><div>Cleaned a fish--NO. I can't even take the fish off the hook much less clean it!</div><div>Started a fire--YES. And I'll challenge anyone to a one-match-fire competition. I'd win every time. </div><div>Witnessed a crime--MAYBE? I'm sure I have but I don't remember it?</div><div>Worked for tips--NO</div><div>Owned a rental property--NO and after seeing friends who have? NO THANKS.</div><div>Owned a home--YES and I'm never, ever moving again.</div><div>Paid off a car--YES and in a few months, we'll have another paid off. SUCH a nice feeling.</div><div>Slept in a car--YES.</div><div>Paid off credit cards--YES. Another great feeling when that happens!</div><div>Won a drawing--YES! That's fun, too!</div><div>Been to a Daddy Daughter dance--NO, not even as a kid!</div><div>Been a Best Man in a wedding--NO, but I&quot;ve been a bridesmaid. (Clearly a dude wrote this list...)</div><div>Been a pall bearer at a funeral--NO</div><div>Made s'mores for kids--YES. I worked at a camp...kinda comes with the territory. And for the record...s'mores are the most disgusting thing. Marshmallow? ICK.</div></div><div>Geez...that was a long ass list. If you're still reading this, kudos to you!</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Friday Favs:  Water Color Lettering</title><description><![CDATA[I have never been happier to see Friday. After being gone to a conference last weekend, I am looking forward to my usual weekend routine! So.Last week in Chicago I had dinner with my sweet friend Liz who is the most amazingly talented artist. She's a freelancer and specializes in watercolor. So I've been looking at ideas on Pinterest because I want her to create a logo for my business cards and stuff. Don't you just love that technical term: stuff. Liz told me, "Make a Pinterest board, hide it,]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/22/Friday-Favs-Water-Color-Lettering</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/22/Friday-Favs-Water-Color-Lettering</guid><pubDate>Fri, 22 Apr 2016 12:31:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>I have never been happier to see Friday. After being gone to a conference last weekend, I am looking forward to my usual weekend routine! </div><div>So.</div><div>Last week in Chicago I had dinner with my sweet friend Liz who is the most amazingly talented artist. She's a freelancer and specializes in watercolor. So I've been looking at ideas on Pinterest because I want her to create a logo for my business cards and stuff.</div><div>Don't you just love that technical term: stuff. </div><div>Liz told me, &quot;Make a Pinterest board, hide it, and add me to it so I can see what you like.&quot;</div><div>Play on Pinterest?</div><div>Searching for cool stuff?</div><div>Don't mind if I do...</div><div>As a result I've fallen down the Pinterest rabbit hole looking at colors, letters, overall ideas, and so on.</div><div>I think I might have a watercolor graphics addiction.</div><div><iframe src="//0.htmlcomponentservice.com/get_draft?id=cce484_d2f7dcf9f1c248c5d683df0d9ca8f834.html"/><iframe src="//0.htmlcomponentservice.com/get_draft?id=cce484_2819d84c48055d2adc6da20128271e9b.html"/></div><iframe src="//0.htmlcomponentservice.com/get_draft?id=cce484_9b2bd1f265da71cfc1df85d0f26abf25.html"/><iframe src="//0.htmlcomponentservice.com/get_draft?id=cce484_3266f58358676a6a735ee5710e557b0f.html"/><div>How freaking adorable are these?</div><div>I'll just be over here, looking and pinning and making notes on what I love so Liz can make me something super awesome. </div><div>In the meantime, you should check her out: http://www.ejddesignllc.com</div><div>Enjoy the weekend, peeps!</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Friday Favs:  Spring is Here!</title><description><![CDATA[For those new to my little corner of the interwebs, here a fun fact about me: I lived on a farm for about two-and-a-half-years. I'd love to tell you that I was some sort of local co-op farmer who grew organic veggies for a CSA and each week customers came by and picked their own or some crazy, made up story like that. Hardly. It was a big change for me to live out there. I am a city kid to the core. And to live on a farm where the water was so hard turned your toilet orange (even with softener<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_ffb4a5cb9ab349bf88be2f49de978be2.jpeg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/15/Friday-Favs-Spring-is-Here</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/15/Friday-Favs-Spring-is-Here</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2016 12:38:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>For those new to my little corner of the interwebs, here a fun fact about me: I lived on a farm for about two-and-a-half-years.</div><div>I'd love to tell you that I was some sort of local co-op farmer who grew organic veggies for a CSA and each week customers came by and picked their own or some crazy, made up story like that. </div><div>Hardly.</div><div>It was a big change for me to live out there. I am a city kid to the core. And to live on a farm where the water was so hard turned your toilet orange (even with softener salt), the infestation of those Japanese beetles every year, where a trip to town was a planned event...it was hard for me. My husband loved it of course. But for me, let's just say I absolutely took one for the team. </div><div>How did we end up there? I changed jobs which brought my husband and I back to the area where he grew up. And we needed a place to live--so my in-laws offered us the second house on the family farm. In fact, it was the house my husband grew up in! </div><div>And yes. That's right. Two houses on the property. My in-laws were right across the yard. </div><div>No. It wasn't odd, actually. We had good boundaries, including calling each other to come over when we got the wrong mail by accident.</div><div>Anyway.</div><div>As much as the farm wasn't my jam, you know what I do miss?</div><div>Lilac bushes.</div><div>The bushes were so big that they actually created a natural fence around the property, splitting the farmstead (where the houses and buildings are located) and the farm land (the field for crops).</div><iframe src="//0.htmlcomponentservice.com/get_draft?id=cce484_6c1a3231f4561a8b5d9f09ee408620e0.html"/><div>This was taken three years ago when we made the decision to buy a house in town. The best part about them? When the wind blew, the whole house smelled like lilacs. It was incredible. They were all purple--some dark, some light. I don't remember any white lilacs.</div><div>Farm life may not have been for me, but man. I miss those lilacs.</div><div>When we moved, we bought a house with a giant backyard. It has apple trees, a plum tree, raspberry bushes, strawberries...but no lilacs. Our good friends, as a housewarming gift, gave us a gift certificate to a local nursery for the purpose of buying lilac bushes.</div><div>How freakin' sweet were they to think of that?</div><div>(answer: pretty freakin' sweet)</div><div>So we did.</div><div>And they've slowly been growing and spring has finally sprung because they leaves are starting to pop out. </div><div>I LOVE that about spring.</div><div>LOVE. IT.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_ffb4a5cb9ab349bf88be2f49de978be2.jpeg"/><div>Here's hoping you find a Friday Favorite worth celebrating!</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>I'm Getting an ISBN Number...</title><description><![CDATA[If you're familiar with books, you know that every book that has been published has an ISBN number. ISBN = International Standard Book Number. Flip over a book on your shelf and you'll see it. Usually right over the barcode. If not, look at the first few pages with the copyright information. Anyway.In order to get that number, you have to have a published book. Wait.What? Yep.My book is being published! I know! I know! I KNOW!!!I can't believe it either. In late spring/early summer of 2017 my<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_757906566d0c4f6397dd6393531a3371.gif"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/12/Im-Getting-an-ISBN-Number</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/12/Im-Getting-an-ISBN-Number</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2016 16:36:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>If you're familiar with books, you know that every book that has been published has an ISBN number. ISBN = International Standard Book Number. Flip over a book on your shelf and you'll see it. Usually right over the barcode. If not, look at the first few pages with the copyright information.</div><div>Anyway.</div><div>In order to get that number, you have to have a published book.</div><div>Wait.</div><div>What?</div><div>Yep.</div><div>My book is being published!</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_757906566d0c4f6397dd6393531a3371.gif"/><div>I know!</div><div>I know!</div><div>I KNOW!!!</div><div>I can't believe it either.</div><div>In late spring/early summer of 2017 my novel, If You're Ever in Town will be published by BookFish Books. Here on the ol' blog I plan to share the process with you and what goes into that. I did not enter into this lightly, taking my time to research this process to make sure it was the right fit.</div><div>And while I may have given myself an ulcer thinking about it, I can say that I feel comfortable and confident in my decision.</div><div>So, do me a favor--come follow me on social media. Say hi. Let's connect. And I promise, I will not spam you with my book stuff. I'm still a girl, living in West Central, Minnesota with my husband, dog, a cat that hates the dog and navigating the world around me. </div><div>Twitter: https://twitter.com/kdpwrites</div><div>Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kd_proctor</div><div>It's going to be an awesome ride!</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>On my Bookshelf:  My Perfect Mistake</title><description><![CDATA[When I read Kelly's first novel, Chasing Crazy, I saw a lot of my 19-year-old self in the female main character. This is why I love New Adult and Contemporary Romance novels. I like identifying with the characters, making it easy to understand why they do the things they do. How in the world it happened again I have no idea because while I can't ski, or decorate worth anything, and as a late 20-something I couldn't just hook up with a guy....I can admit freely that I, too, had an ex who was The]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/11/Book-Review-My-Perfect-Mistake</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/11/Book-Review-My-Perfect-Mistake</guid><pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2016 16:11:15 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><iframe src="http://static.usrfiles.com/html/cce484_847cba88a781660e93f7aeaf532781d9.html"/><div>When I read Kelly's first novel, Chasing Crazy, I saw a lot of my 19-year-old self in the female main character. This is why I love New Adult and Contemporary Romance novels. I like identifying with the characters, making it easy to understand why they do the things they do.</div><div>How in the world it happened again I have no idea because while I can't ski, or decorate worth anything, and as a late 20-something I couldn't just hook up with a guy....I can admit freely that I, too, had an ex who was The Dick to a &quot;t&quot;.</div><div>And like Shay, I...</div><div>Left the guy and moved out on my own for the first time.I had to scrimp and save everything I could just to make the rent, all while playing the 'what if's' in my headAnd for years (yes. YEARS) after it ended, I still struggled with the mental games he put me through.</div><div>What I have loved about My Perfect Mistake is the fact that she is writing real situations. Yes, romance novels have a lot of the same tropes that have us coming back for more (that's what makes them so good). The enemies to lovers trope is done so well I found my own heart raced as they argued, just liked I was in the room with them. I found myself swooning over their connection. I appreciated how the push/pull between them wasn't cliche, making the connection to the characters realistic. </div><div>And that's what I want in my books. Realistic characters. Realistic conversations. Realistic drama. I know romance novels will have somewhat of a typical pattern--push, pull, fall ass over elbows, have a big blowup/misunderstanding that tears them apart, and then we sail into the happily ever after. But when there is a typical pattern of a romance novel, it means authors need to find ways to make that typical 'stuff' worth reading again and again.</div><div>Kelly's story flowed together so seamlessly and easily that rooting for these characters was easy and heartwarming.</div><div>Recommend or pass: Totally recommend. Click the image above to be taken to Amazon and one-click that sucker! You won't be sorry!</div><div>Kelly Siskind...I heart you.</div><div>I can't wait for book 2!</div><div>Disclaimer: Reviews that I publish are from books that I purchase at full price (unless otherwise noted or provided for free as an ARC). As always, reviews are based on my experience and opinion. </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Friday Favs</title><description><![CDATA[On my old blog, I used to do some Friday Fav shout outs and thought I'd do the same on this blog. So...here we go! My Favorite Tomato Soup Recipe It's crazy but the weather in Minnesota fluctuates like crazy this time of year. So while winter is gone, "soup weather" is still sticking around. This recipe is so easy. Sherried Tomato Soup by The Pioneer Woman NOTE: I have omitted the heavy cream, reduced the butter by half, and I use red wine instead of Sherry. 3 Tablespoons Melted Butter 1 whole]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/08/Friday-Favs</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/08/Friday-Favs</guid><pubDate>Fri, 08 Apr 2016 23:32:20 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>On my old blog, I used to do some Friday Fav shout outs and thought I'd do the same on this blog. So...here we go!</div><div>My Favorite Tomato Soup Recipe</div><div>It's crazy but the weather in Minnesota fluctuates like crazy this time of year. So while winter is gone, &quot;soup weather&quot; is still sticking around.</div><div>This recipe is so easy.</div><div><a href="http://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking/sherried_tomato_soup/">Sherried Tomato Soup by The Pioneer Woman</a></div><div>NOTE: I have omitted the heavy cream, reduced the butter by half, and I use red wine instead of Sherry.</div><div>3 Tablespoons Melted Butter1 whole Medium Onion, Diced1 bottle (46 Oz.) Tomato Juice2 cans (14 Oz. Cans) Diced Tomatoes1 Tablespoon (up To 3 Tablespoons) Chicken Base3 Tablespoons (up To 6 Tablespoons) Sugar1 pinch Salt Black Pepper To Taste1 cup red wine Chopped Fresh Parsley Chopped Fresh Basil</div><div>Directions:</div><div>Melt the butter and add the diced onions. Sauté until soft. Add the tomato juice (I use Red Gold), diced tomatoes, chicken base, sugar, S&amp;P and wine. Let it come to a boil. Pull from heat add a pinch parsley and basil. </div><div>EASY. PEASY.</div><div>And this is on our menu for this week (read: it reheats really well for left overs)</div><div>My Favorite Song(s) on Repeat this week:</div><div>Can we just agree that Kelly Clarkson has one hell of a voice? HOLY. SHIT.</div><iframe src="//0.htmlcomponentservice.com/get_draft?id=cce484_c1553c12715f482eb13068a83aa25a20.html"/><div>And then there is this one that has me dancing in my seat when I hear it. </div><div>I know. These two songs are basically polar opposites of one another. But I love them so.</div><div>Ben Rector is one of my favs and he's that guy who when people hear him they say, &quot;Who is this?&quot; and I gladly pull up my Ben Rector folder on my iPhone. </div><div>*Fun Fact* I downloaded this album while in the backseat of a Chevy Tahoe on the way to Montana last summer. So when I hear these songs, I can still see the mountains and wide open prairie of South Dakota, Wyoming and Montana whiz by the window. </div><iframe src="//0.htmlcomponentservice.com/get_draft?id=cce484_36a8e05b4122da32227601174236b02e.html"/><div>Favorite Ways I Plan to Waste Time this Weekend:</div><div>I'll be doing a little bit of...</div><div><div><a href="http://www.myrecipes.com/recipe/banana-bread-chocolate-glaze">Banana bread</a> makin' </div>Embroidery stitchin'Puppy belly rubbin'Sam's Club shoppin'</div><div>Enjoy the weekend, peeps!</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Real Life, Episode 1</title><description><![CDATA[Text from my 14-year-old nephew (using my sister-in-law's phone).And....my reply...The result? I spammed his brother's Instagram instead, liking most of his recent photos. I know.I'm so mean.<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_14458f6335d24f6684c327892197f8b9.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/04/Real-Life-Episode-1</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/04/Real-Life-Episode-1</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Apr 2016 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Text from my 14-year-old nephew (using my sister-in-law's phone).</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_14458f6335d24f6684c327892197f8b9.jpg"/><div>And....my reply...</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_7b7839b4cb6f442bbc78f193b5388a95.jpg"/><div>The result?</div><div>I spammed his brother's Instagram instead, liking most of his recent photos. </div><div>I know.</div><div>I'm so mean.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>On my Bookshelf:  The Best Kept Secret</title><description><![CDATA[Recently on Twitter I found myself connecting with some authors who have worked with specific publishers that I have been researching. One of the best ways to research publishers--especially small presses--is to look at the books that they've edited. Granted, I know that this is subjective. The author still has the control in their project--so even if an editor suggests that something be changed, it may or may not happen. And if a book interests you--obviously buying books to support authors is]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/02/Book-Review-The-Best-Kept-Secret</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/04/02/Book-Review-The-Best-Kept-Secret</guid><pubDate>Sat, 02 Apr 2016 15:51:13 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><iframe src="http://static.usrfiles.com/html/cce484_26d1c43cfa283bafe2483f43578e5ce2.html"/><div>Recently on Twitter I found myself connecting with some authors who have worked with specific publishers that I have been researching. One of the best ways to research publishers--especially small presses--is to look at the books that they've edited.</div><div>Granted, I know that this is subjective. The author still has the control in their project--so even if an editor suggests that something be changed, it may or may not happen. </div><div>And if a book interests you--obviously buying books to support authors is a good thing. Small press or not. </div><div>So, this weekend I downloaded The Best Kept Secret by Wendi Nunnery. This book launched in June 2015 and I am so glad that I took the time to not only reach out and connect with her, but reading her book was a great way to fill my weekend. </div><div>It has been a sweet forever since I've read a YA novel and it was worth it!</div><div>The book blurb: </div><div>In high school, everyone has their secrets. Even well-brought-up Emma Fraser.  Emma’s sophomore year started out all wrong. First, her best friend Andy confessed to losing his virginity in the back seat of a car, leaving Emma all alone in the V-Club. Then the rest of her friends got weird and, suddenly, Emma found herself feeling like a stranger. Now, struggling to find her new place, Emma wonders if things could get any worse.  When Deegan Burke, a rich, gorgeous senior, asks Emma to be his date for the prom, Emma thinks her luck has begun to change. But rather than being able to celebrate, her whole world starts to unravel. And when secrets that once seemed so innocent start to take a very dangerous turn, Emma discovers that friends are friends no matter what…and some secrets aren’t worth keeping. </div><div>My review:</div><div>I ugly cried at the ending.</div><div>UGLY. CRIED.</div><div>Well written with great character development. Emma, Andy, Elise, Deegan, Jesse...all relatable characters with the thoughts that most 16 and 17 year olds go through. Sex. Boyfriends. Girlfriends. Struggling with manipulative friendships. Social acceptance. Good relationships with parents. All relatable and for someone who hasn't been a teenager for a loooonnnngggg time, I could understand the dilemmas that they were up against. </div><div>And not to give away any spoilers, but the author did a good job at keeping the true issue under wraps--buried, if you will--just like it happens so often in real life. </div><div>I loved the friendship between Emma and Andy--especially the conversations about how things are changing between them. I think friendships at that age change so dramatically and so quickly that the act of change can be hard to adapt to. But the author did a beautiful job of capturing that uneasiness and natural questioning that teenagers have about those life changes. </div><div>There's also the issue of things aren't as they seem. I had my suspicions about some characters...were they? weren't they? did they? I liked that she kept me guessing and this is the first book in a long time where I haven't skimmed chapters or read ahead to see if my suspicions were correct. And I'm so glad that I stayed in the moment.</div><div>The ending wrecked me. Tears. Sniffles. The whole nine-yards. But I will say on one hand I was conflicted--what was Emma's reaction?! But on the other hand--I'm glad we didn't go there. </div><div>This was a great debut novel! </div><div>Recommend or Pass: Recommend. As I like to call it...a sweet beach read. Perfect for the plane ride to vacation or while curled up by the fire on a chilly night. </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>From Brainstorm to Bookshelf:  Step One--Where I got the idea...</title><description><![CDATA[Confession: I just found a bag of Pepperidge Farm Mini Chocolate Chunk cookies in our pantry with a sell by date of two months ago. Guess what? They're still delicious. Moving on.... Earlier today my supervisor asked me, "How did you come up with the idea for your book?" I didn't want to tell her. Not because I was embarrassed or worried she wouldn't like the plot. But because I'd have to admit that I got it while attending a work conference in Chicago while I was sitting in a session about<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_45e6b53cbe7e45ac9953ed63cebb7a9d.gif"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/03/31/From-Brainstorm-to-Bookshelf-Step-OneWhere-I-got-the-idea</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/03/31/From-Brainstorm-to-Bookshelf-Step-OneWhere-I-got-the-idea</guid><pubDate>Thu, 31 Mar 2016 21:50:58 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Confession: I just found a bag of Pepperidge Farm Mini Chocolate Chunk cookies in our pantry with a sell by date of two months ago.</div><div>Guess what? They're still delicious.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_45e6b53cbe7e45ac9953ed63cebb7a9d.gif"/><div>Moving on....</div><div>Earlier today my supervisor asked me, &quot;How did you come up with the idea for your book?&quot;</div><div>I didn't want to tell her. Not because I was embarrassed or worried she wouldn't like the plot. But because I'd have to admit that I got it while attending a work conference in Chicago while I was sitting in a session about federal compliance for higher education standards. </div><div>It's true.</div><div>In fact...it was a year ago today.</div><div>On. The. Dot.</div><div>I was in one of those large ballrooms that can fit, like, 2000 people, and I was listening to someone drone on...and on...and on about federal requirements for higher education and out of nowhere I got this idea for a romance book about friends who worked together at a summer camp a number of years ago and traveled around the world to spread their dead friend's ashes.</div><div>I know.</div><div>Federal rules and regulations....summer camp friends turned lovers...yep. Makes complete sense how those two are related.</div><div>Welcome to my brain.</div><div>That night back in my hotel room I sat down and started to plot out the story. And I had the rough draft written in a month. Yep. A month. Don't get overly excited because it was the roughest of rough drafts--like a skeleton. I took a few more weeks to fill in the guts and start to tweak and edit the rest to have something somewhat presentable for critique. </div><div>A few weeks ago I found my original hand written notes and the story I have now, that is currently out on query, is NOTHING like the notes I originally wrote. Only about 5% of it is actually the same. </div><div>How is it different? Here are a few tiny things:</div><div>Such as:</div><div>Gwen was a friend, not Charlie's sister.DIY, television shows and a $25,000 Life Insurance policy weren't even part of the plan.Some character names and occupations have changed.They travelled to Italy, Scotland, Iceland and Australia.Nate and Melanie were originally a camp couple, while Charlie and Nate were just friends.Charlie and Nate never dated at camp.</div><div>If you want to read the blurb as it is currently, click here.</div><div>So, why did it change?</div><div>Well. I thought I'd share that through a series of blog posts. How I plotted it, found my critique partners, the feedback I've gotten, and how it came to be today--ending with the querying process and ending up as a finalist in the Sun vs. Snow competition back in February.</div><div>Of course, I'll share other non-book stuff, too! </div><div>Until then, let's connect on <a href="https://twitter.com/kdpwrites">Twitter</a>!</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Sometimes Waiting on a Query is like...</title><description><![CDATA[]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/03/26/Sometimes-Waiting-on-a-Query-is-like</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/03/26/Sometimes-Waiting-on-a-Query-is-like</guid><pubDate>Sat, 26 Mar 2016 21:15:33 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><iframe src="//0.htmlcomponentservice.com/get_draft?id=cce484_751dfa5bd98ed8ae3ae95a1fd4e0c015.html"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>This is scary, y'all...</title><description><![CDATA[Want to know a secret? I’m scared shitless about this whole writing thing. If I could insert the little poop emoji right now, I would. When I first started all of this, I would have said that the writing was the hardest part. There’s the mechanical part of it…good sentence structure…not starting every sentence with “I”…the debate of two spaces after a period or just one. Then there’s the part about writing well. Showing not telling…writing what is necessary to push the story forward…avoiding the<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_9b834a44bac44640a7a5333038aa7bca.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/03/25/This-is-scary-yall</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/03/25/This-is-scary-yall</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Mar 2016 21:14:20 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/28b840_9b834a44bac44640a7a5333038aa7bca.jpg"/><div>Want to know a secret?</div><div>I’m scared shitless about this whole writing thing.</div><div>If I could insert the little poop emoji right now, I would. </div><div>When I first started all of this, I would have said that the writing was the hardest part. There’s the mechanical part of it…good sentence structure…not starting every sentence with “I”…the debate of two spaces after a period or just one. Then there’s the part about writing well. Showing not telling…writing what is necessary to push the story forward…avoiding the purple prose…and my nemesis: rhetorical questions. </div><div>Friends. All of that was the easier part.</div><div>I don’t want to downplay the writing as easy because for some people, that is the hard part. Sometimes authors are told they need to work on their voice. Or pacing. Or plot. Or tighten things up. Or cut stuff they love (believe me, that is hard). </div><div>Querying? Yes. That’s hard, too. And it’s hard to read an e-mail that says, “Sorry, but…” It’s all a part of the game that is building a business relationship. I’ve had rejection letters already and I’ve told myself I get a day to be bummed. Then it’s right back into the thick of it to see what I can do to make that manuscript better.</div><div>But the fear is what is looming for me after the call from an agent or editor or publisher saying, “We want to work with you.”</div><div>Because yes. I do believe that call will come.</div><div>For me, the fear I have looks like this:</div><div>Fear of not selling enough books.</div><div>Fear of stressing about edits.</div><div>Fear of dreaming so much that my real job suffers.</div><div>Fear of not dreaming big enough so this never takes off.</div><div>Fear of trying to market and you spend more money than you make.</div><div>Fear of having to explain myself over and over again that romance is not a sluff genre.</div><div>Fear of not coming up for air and sacrificing my self-care needs.</div><div>Fear of not being taken seriously by the authors at the adult table while I’m still at the kiddie table.</div><div>Fear of burn out.</div><div>Fear of writing the same story over and over but with different characters.</div><div>Fear of upsetting someone because something I wrote was a trigger—and I didn’t intend it that way.</div><div>Fear of being present to build my brand but it fails miserably.</div><div>Fear of missing a deadline.</div><div>Fear of being dropped by my agent/editor/publisher.</div><div>Fear of being a mass produced product.</div><div>Fear of not being able to vent because I’ll seem ungrateful.</div><div>So. Yeah. </div><div>I know I’m not alone, thankfully. But dang. Our minds can be scary places, can’t they?</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>It's Good to Blog Again</title><description><![CDATA[*blows dust off the keyboard* *taps the mic* Are we on? We are? AWESOME! Hi.I'm Kelley, otherwise known as KD Proctor. I had a blog a long while ago and well, it's been quiet and not really getting much traffic. Then again, the last time I blogged was December of 2014. So. Imagine that. Anyway. I'm getting back into this writing thing and writing a blog about it. Though, I don't know many people who blog anymore. Remember how the mommy blog craze took off like wildfire back around 2006 or 2007?]]></description><link>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/03/24/Its-Good-to-Blog-Again</link><guid>https://www.kdproctor.com/single-post/2016/03/24/Its-Good-to-Blog-Again</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Mar 2016 00:09:32 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>*blows dust off the keyboard*</div><div>*taps the mic*</div><div>Are we on? We are? </div><div>AWESOME!</div><div>Hi.</div><div>I'm Kelley, otherwise known as KD Proctor. </div><div>I had a blog a long while ago and well, it's been quiet and not really getting much traffic. Then again, the last time I blogged was December of 2014. So. Imagine that. </div><div>Anyway. I'm getting back into this writing thing and writing a blog about it. Though, I don't know many people who blog anymore. Remember how the mommy blog craze took off like wildfire back around 2006 or 2007?</div><div>Man. How times have changed.</div><div>So. What am I going to blog about?</div><div>The same stuff I blogged about before. Randomness. Life. How my husband would like a cookie and a small parade for taking out the trash once a week. And I thought I'd toss in here a little bit about this new adventure I'm on. Writing a book.</div><div>Crazy, I know.</div><div>I'm no expert and I'm figuring this crap out just like everyone else. But my goal is to make connections. Get to know you. Read books. Write books. Hopefully get you to like my books and say, &quot;Hey, friend o' mine, you should read this book by KD Proctor because it's really awesome.&quot;</div><div>On my website (look at me sounding all official) you'll see what I'm planning to write. You can see how to contact me. And I might even share some of the chapter exerpts as allowed. </div><div>I'm glad you're here.</div><div>Really.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>